"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The Economics of Sex
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
For HOT women, they still have a lot of control. The majority of men are chasing them and they are chasing the top 10% of men.
End the welfare state.So how can we flood the market with HB9's?Every guy should have 2 or 3. lol
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Whether you are cold approaching, using social circle game or doing OLD... the search for a woman worth more than sex is literally like rummaging through a full TRASH CAN to find a golden ring.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Be a magnet, and that ring will gravitate to you.
RichardTheFrog
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But these girls who want relationships also have **** buddies on the side. They're trying to have their cake and eat it, too. How can you explain that? These girls just want d1ck.
The whole "innocent girl" thing is a mirage.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
I think too often people are projecting there own prejudices onto the world. This is what happens when we become imaginatively impoverished.
The reality is there is a wide spectrum along which people of diverse persuasions and lifestyles can be found.... though that said, continual exposure to media and technology seems to be narrowing that experience.
The base more and more dominates the media, and so the media loses any educatory function it might have. It now becomes propaganda.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
It's an interesting vid from a different perspective than the normal one. Essentially, it's saying that women are working against their best interests by offering up casual sex. And their best interest is in securing a man in an LTR. From a women's perspective, it is hard to argue with this. Further, I wonder if it is also in the interests of humanity.
Here's the thing though. This rational approach - one that looks for a universal and practical morality.. even if just based on economic/ self-interest principles - is fast being lost. Today, people are increasingly thinking in terms of class, sex, power; they identify with a group that is a subset of the whole. The logic is 'post-modern' in so far as it can not even intelligibly relate to the old 'modern' ideal of a universal culture. Now all we have are culture wars.
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The Art of Drinking
Whiskey is both significant and superfluous
Like art it has no point beyond its purpose
An end in itself perfect and complete
No rocks no water no soda just itself neat
It’s made for a lazy day and leisurely disposition
Which paints in hues the old liberal tradition
Contrary to its content is the importance of form
Which is wont to observe strict rhythmic rules
Inversely proportioned to our right to play fools
Though its field of freedom is not of the politic kind
All forms of seriousness it politely declines
Changing colors it's stranger to party and cause
All anxieties it mocks or subverts or just ignores
And in wealthier times when all work for the general good
We slink off to find its leisure a pleasure misunderstood
And in decadent days when ideologies eat up culture
When opposed parties pick at each-other like vultures
There's the symbol of everything civil the drawing room
Where we retire to whiskey and write our doom.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
dustmuffin
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Because women have a two pronged sexual strategy. They want to f uck the alpha but also want comfort and security. So they have a bf that gives them comfort and security but no alpha tingles and then Chad the alpha on the side.
Its funny guys do the opposite of this. We want to date and marry the HOT girl, but we will keep 6's and hoes on the side for booty calls lol.
dustmuffin
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All I want is a cute girl that is loyal, gives hot sex and pulls her weight. But.....I'm never getting married again so I will just continue doing what I'm doing. That is screw anywhere from 3-5 women at a time and if the don't like it they can leave, because replacements are easy to find.