"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Easiest Way to Make Progress

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In your journey of becoming the person you want to become, we've all had some bumps in the road, some more than others. It gets tiring after a while and may wear you out, and it feels like a chore a lot of times, sometimes even painful. The best way to fight against the current in just about every situation is to learn to love the pain thag comes in doing so. Feel the stress and pain (whether mental, physical, or both) on you and your body and know that you are getting stronger and tougher by every passing second. Love that feeling. You must WANT to get tougher. You will soon learn to love the pain the comes along with this toughness. Garner the strength and willpower to push through everything no matter how much it resists you. Learn to love the pain.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Agreed, but man is it hard to do with your heart. I am feeling perfectly fine one minute, then still missing her the next...

Physically, I can do this no problem. Mentally, it's like a rollercoaster. Maybe just shows how weak I really am...
 

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Easiest way to make progress?

Go out literally tomorrow. Stop a woman in the street. Give her a compliment. Break the ice. See what happens. Do it a few times.

It will change your life.
Even just engaging in conversation with a stranger makes a world of difference in the mind. It is the night time and work I have trouble with...
 

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Mate, night-game sucks in comparison.

I walked around today like a superstar. I had girls giving me IOI's that I seriously doubt I'd get in the club.

The club is very contained, and based on social-circle game. I'm not into that sh*t. I am completely self-sufficient.

Trust me on this one, I seriously doubt that you understand your own value. I never did until I started approaching girls on the street.
I actually meant when I am in bed :D. I have had far more success recently gauging interest at the grocery store than anywhere else, especially the bar scene. I am referring to when I wake up at 2 or 3am and start thinking about the ex and can't get back to sleep. I suppose that will pass with time though...
 
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