“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Easiest Way to Make Progress

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In your journey of becoming the person you want to become, we've all had some bumps in the road, some more than others. It gets tiring after a while and may wear you out, and it feels like a chore a lot of times, sometimes even painful. The best way to fight against the current in just about every situation is to learn to love the pain thag comes in doing so. Feel the stress and pain (whether mental, physical, or both) on you and your body and know that you are getting stronger and tougher by every passing second. Love that feeling. You must WANT to get tougher. You will soon learn to love the pain the comes along with this toughness. Garner the strength and willpower to push through everything no matter how much it resists you. Learn to love the pain.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Agreed, but man is it hard to do with your heart. I am feeling perfectly fine one minute, then still missing her the next...

Physically, I can do this no problem. Mentally, it's like a rollercoaster. Maybe just shows how weak I really am...
 

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Easiest way to make progress?

Go out literally tomorrow. Stop a woman in the street. Give her a compliment. Break the ice. See what happens. Do it a few times.

It will change your life.
Even just engaging in conversation with a stranger makes a world of difference in the mind. It is the night time and work I have trouble with...
 

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Mate, night-game sucks in comparison.

I walked around today like a superstar. I had girls giving me IOI's that I seriously doubt I'd get in the club.

The club is very contained, and based on social-circle game. I'm not into that sh*t. I am completely self-sufficient.

Trust me on this one, I seriously doubt that you understand your own value. I never did until I started approaching girls on the street.
I actually meant when I am in bed :D. I have had far more success recently gauging interest at the grocery store than anywhere else, especially the bar scene. I am referring to when I wake up at 2 or 3am and start thinking about the ex and can't get back to sleep. I suppose that will pass with time though...
 
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