"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The dumb b*tch texts me AND threatens me!? WTF!?

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Ok so last night I received a text message from the girl that made me come to this website. I hate her guts and I guess she hates mine too but this came totally out of the blue for me;

Her: I guess (friend) scared u...
Me: What? Who's this?
Her: Bla...
Me: Wow. Scared me? Wtf?
Her: Now that i'm out of high school i can really convey how much i honestly hate u.
Me: Ok great, tell someone who cares. Bye
Her: **** you...its so not over u pathetic bastard

About her friend "scaring" me, I haven't seen her friend for as long as I haven't seen her which has been four months. So I don't know what that is supposed to mean.

At this point I'm like, WTF!? No idea what I did to this b*tch. I'm really not worried about it but should I be? Should I ignore this or try to find out what the f*ck is up?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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save the text and go to the cops, and use the message as evidence - this is only if ur TRULY scared
 
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ignore it. block her number.

and if you see her, and she talks to you, PUT THE WHOOORE IN HER PLACE.
 
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skip2mylou781 said:
save the text and go to the cops, and use the message as evidence - this is only if ur TRULY scared
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I'll keep that in mind but I'm not too worried about it. She is emotionally unstable though so I am not sure if she really will do anything.
 
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Be Don Juan Dummy

Text her and say...

You know what hunny. Honestly at the end of all this, you were the hottest girl I ever been with, and I trully enjoyed every single moment I was with you. I with you nothing but happines.

and then leave it be... u dont need dramma... let her FEEL like she won... let her FEEL like she WAS THE BEST you ever had.. who gives a fck man.. let her feel what ever she wants.. you saved the bridge just in case... and walk away.. dont put fuel on fire...

DonJuan says and acts what is necessary, doesnt mean it has to be right or true....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just ignore her for now.. She is a woman, so she will not just leave it at this. She will text you again, and give you more info.. Then maybe you will know what the hell she is talking about and you will have a better idea of what to do about this.
 
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You fukked up.....just by replying to her msg!

She's an ex-, forget her, ignore her, move on and don't look back. All she is doing is trying to provoke you to get some attention and as long as you are replying to her even negatively (especially negatively) it shows you care.

Dont be her puppet!
 
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Don't try and figure it out. Block it and delete contact info. It will go away.
 
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I'll ignore her unless she actually does something, if she does I'll update this thread or make a new one. Thanks guys.
 
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Just ignore this girl...

I mean, is it the first time you got any kind of malicious or less than sultry text? The fact you wasted your time and money (or free text quota) in replying to it and trying to disprove the allegations shows that you're still relatively immature...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This is the first time i've heard anything from this girl in four months so it really caught me off guard for something like that. One of my friends told me a lot rumors were going around about her so I guess she thinks I started them.

I'm not going to try and proclaim my innosence, I am going to take everyone's advice and ignore her because she is not worth any more of my time nor thought.
 
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Krak said:
I'm not going to try and proclaim my innosence, I am going to take everyone's advice and ignore her because she is not worth any more of my time nor thought.
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I agree this is the best solution too. I had a problem with a psycho ex- last year who (idly) threatened to kill me, so I just ignored her and it went away.
 
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The Truth said:
You fukked up.....just by replying to her msg!

She's an ex-, forget her, ignore her, move on and don't look back. All she is doing is trying to provoke you to get some attention and as long as you are replying to her even negatively (especially negatively) it shows you care.

Dont be her puppet!
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Totally agree...
 
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