"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The dumb b*tch texts me AND threatens me!? WTF!?

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Ok so last night I received a text message from the girl that made me come to this website. I hate her guts and I guess she hates mine too but this came totally out of the blue for me;

Her: I guess (friend) scared u...
Me: What? Who's this?
Her: Bla...
Me: Wow. Scared me? Wtf?
Her: Now that i'm out of high school i can really convey how much i honestly hate u.
Me: Ok great, tell someone who cares. Bye
Her: **** you...its so not over u pathetic bastard

About her friend "scaring" me, I haven't seen her friend for as long as I haven't seen her which has been four months. So I don't know what that is supposed to mean.

At this point I'm like, WTF!? No idea what I did to this b*tch. I'm really not worried about it but should I be? Should I ignore this or try to find out what the f*ck is up?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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save the text and go to the cops, and use the message as evidence - this is only if ur TRULY scared
 
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ignore it. block her number.

and if you see her, and she talks to you, PUT THE WHOOORE IN HER PLACE.
 
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skip2mylou781 said:
save the text and go to the cops, and use the message as evidence - this is only if ur TRULY scared
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I'll keep that in mind but I'm not too worried about it. She is emotionally unstable though so I am not sure if she really will do anything.
 
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Be Don Juan Dummy

Text her and say...

You know what hunny. Honestly at the end of all this, you were the hottest girl I ever been with, and I trully enjoyed every single moment I was with you. I with you nothing but happines.

and then leave it be... u dont need dramma... let her FEEL like she won... let her FEEL like she WAS THE BEST you ever had.. who gives a fck man.. let her feel what ever she wants.. you saved the bridge just in case... and walk away.. dont put fuel on fire...

DonJuan says and acts what is necessary, doesnt mean it has to be right or true....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just ignore her for now.. She is a woman, so she will not just leave it at this. She will text you again, and give you more info.. Then maybe you will know what the hell she is talking about and you will have a better idea of what to do about this.
 
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You fukked up.....just by replying to her msg!

She's an ex-, forget her, ignore her, move on and don't look back. All she is doing is trying to provoke you to get some attention and as long as you are replying to her even negatively (especially negatively) it shows you care.

Dont be her puppet!
 
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Don't try and figure it out. Block it and delete contact info. It will go away.
 
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I'll ignore her unless she actually does something, if she does I'll update this thread or make a new one. Thanks guys.
 
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Just ignore this girl...

I mean, is it the first time you got any kind of malicious or less than sultry text? The fact you wasted your time and money (or free text quota) in replying to it and trying to disprove the allegations shows that you're still relatively immature...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is the first time i've heard anything from this girl in four months so it really caught me off guard for something like that. One of my friends told me a lot rumors were going around about her so I guess she thinks I started them.

I'm not going to try and proclaim my innosence, I am going to take everyone's advice and ignore her because she is not worth any more of my time nor thought.
 
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Krak said:
I'm not going to try and proclaim my innosence, I am going to take everyone's advice and ignore her because she is not worth any more of my time nor thought.
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I agree this is the best solution too. I had a problem with a psycho ex- last year who (idly) threatened to kill me, so I just ignored her and it went away.
 
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The Truth said:
You fukked up.....just by replying to her msg!

She's an ex-, forget her, ignore her, move on and don't look back. All she is doing is trying to provoke you to get some attention and as long as you are replying to her even negatively (especially negatively) it shows you care.

Dont be her puppet!
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Totally agree...
 
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