SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
This thread is a pity party. All I see is people describing how easy attractive men have it. Such insight. Boohoo.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The dudes that make "gamers" sick to their stomach with insecurity.
- Thread starter 9Volt
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Never said I don't get chicks nor need to use "game" to get them. To "gamers" it's like they live in a fantasy world where the top males can't possibly be getting chicks without game let alone have chicks and or their friends approach them or they must be some shy hiding in the corner dude that has never talked with chicks before because he's not using "game".
These dudes talk that "red pill" shyt. they'd be "red pilled" something seriously awful. Its like some dowdy busted chick or some feminist loon talking about how hot chicks must not be able to talk to dudes because they don't use "game" like them and dudes really "like them more" than the hot chicks. Who the hell gets "gamed" by a chick they find unattractive to decide she's really "attractive" like a hot chick unless the dude is a h0rny as f thirst bucket in a severe dry spell??
zekko
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We just talking, Smoove. Nobody's crying. Game has its place, but the most important thing in dating is SMV. IMO.
The PUAs who want to say that " game trumps all" have ironically set up their own matrix. If you challenge it, you are met with anger.
If the goal of PUAs is to mimic the behavior of naturals (those with high SMV), it's only logical to conclude that the genuine article beats out the imitation.
JohnChops
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Interesting. I always wanted to throw up some shirtless pics but always felt wrong doing it.I literally only have a picture of my torso on OLD and tinder and women still talk to me like I am a normal human being with a face. Personality and character don't matter in the face actual sexual value.
And yes, it feels great to objectified. Guys are different. We only get ego boosts from sex. We don't feel any better if we had to open our mouths and have women take us seriously. The point is to raise your SMV value through the roof so you don't have to say much, not learn 10000 lines and techniques.
Old self body conscious shining thru