_sideways_
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There is no beauty. Its electrical charges that are.
Emit your charge
Forever
Emit your charge
Forever
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
the duality of attraction
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Tictac
Banned
Posting while hallucinating is not a good idea.
SeymourCake
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Is it your spirit that attracts what you want in life. Raise your spirit.
Serenity
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Typical spirituality, incoherent gibberish as usual. Maybe someone on a spiritual forum can make sense of it, they have a tendency to make up a meaning where there is none.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
PeasantPlayer
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Yeah I bet Tesla was laughed at to. Funny how people follow the gravity theory, but yet everything that needs "life" runs on electricity
Serenity
Moderator
I have no idea what you're talking about. Everyone is laughed at for everything, a few just happens to actually have a good idea. The majority doesn't, I assume the most likely scenario like any other rational human being.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
he is saying that the chemistry between people, attraction that is not based on beauty, push your inner energy to her
continued attraction and feelings based on beauty causes you to pedestalize.
(as I discovered applied to my last LTR is exemplified by this gem of a quote)
"In your excitement over my beauty, and your enrapturement over my beauty, you forgot your own inherent value, and have opened yourself to me in a way that was not compassionate towards yourself. I do not desire this expression of low self-worth in a man.”
continued attraction and feelings based on beauty causes you to pedestalize.
(as I discovered applied to my last LTR is exemplified by this gem of a quote)
"In your excitement over my beauty, and your enrapturement over my beauty, you forgot your own inherent value, and have opened yourself to me in a way that was not compassionate towards yourself. I do not desire this expression of low self-worth in a man.”
_sideways_
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^ he gets it.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You submitted to her based on her physical attributes, a lot of them don't like it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.