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There is no beauty. Its electrical charges that are.
Emit your charge
Forever
Emit your charge
Forever
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
the duality of attraction
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Tictac
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Posting while hallucinating is not a good idea.
SeymourCake
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Is it your spirit that attracts what you want in life. Raise your spirit.
Serenity
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Typical spirituality, incoherent gibberish as usual. Maybe someone on a spiritual forum can make sense of it, they have a tendency to make up a meaning where there is none.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
PeasantPlayer
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Yeah I bet Tesla was laughed at to. Funny how people follow the gravity theory, but yet everything that needs "life" runs on electricity
Serenity
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I have no idea what you're talking about. Everyone is laughed at for everything, a few just happens to actually have a good idea. The majority doesn't, I assume the most likely scenario like any other rational human being.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
he is saying that the chemistry between people, attraction that is not based on beauty, push your inner energy to her
continued attraction and feelings based on beauty causes you to pedestalize.
(as I discovered applied to my last LTR is exemplified by this gem of a quote)
"In your excitement over my beauty, and your enrapturement over my beauty, you forgot your own inherent value, and have opened yourself to me in a way that was not compassionate towards yourself. I do not desire this expression of low self-worth in a man.”
continued attraction and feelings based on beauty causes you to pedestalize.
(as I discovered applied to my last LTR is exemplified by this gem of a quote)
"In your excitement over my beauty, and your enrapturement over my beauty, you forgot your own inherent value, and have opened yourself to me in a way that was not compassionate towards yourself. I do not desire this expression of low self-worth in a man.”
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^ he gets it.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You submitted to her based on her physical attributes, a lot of them don't like it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.