Although gyms are seeming to be interesting places to hook up with women these days, there seems to be a glaring down side as well. If you meet a woman at your gym and end up with a bitter split such as in my experience with the 35 year old woman I wrote about in my previous posts, it's gonna be hard for both of you to tolerate seeing each other several days a week. It even becomes worse if you talked to many women at the same gym and perhaps had some less than encouraging results. More often than not, one of you might have to find a different gym to go to. Such is the case with the 35 year old woman I talked about earlier. I could care less what she chooses to do, but I've noticed that she's stopped coming to our gym ever since our bitter rupture. The good thing with my gym is that it's got so many different locations both in the city of Philadelphia, the state of Pennsylvania and across the U.S., so she could go to any other location she feels like. I on the other hand, without a car, am restricted to the location most convenient to get to.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The Down Side to Meeting Women in Gyms
- Thread starter Frank2500
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Same reason why I don't date people from work. Some days I wish I could though ... we got some hotties 
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Don't crap where you eat.
But also remember you are in complete control of your actions.
Set the proper frame of your "post-dating" relationship and things can be cool.
Things are only awkward (or whatever adjective you choose) if you allow them. Her frame should never be stronger than yours.
The only time you should HAVE to avoid an "ex-aquantince" is if she is truly phsyco.
But also remember you are in complete control of your actions.
Set the proper frame of your "post-dating" relationship and things can be cool.
Things are only awkward (or whatever adjective you choose) if you allow them. Her frame should never be stronger than yours.
The only time you should HAVE to avoid an "ex-aquantince" is if she is truly phsyco.