Although gyms are seeming to be interesting places to hook up with women these days, there seems to be a glaring down side as well. If you meet a woman at your gym and end up with a bitter split such as in my experience with the 35 year old woman I wrote about in my previous posts, it's gonna be hard for both of you to tolerate seeing each other several days a week. It even becomes worse if you talked to many women at the same gym and perhaps had some less than encouraging results. More often than not, one of you might have to find a different gym to go to. Such is the case with the 35 year old woman I talked about earlier. I could care less what she chooses to do, but I've noticed that she's stopped coming to our gym ever since our bitter rupture. The good thing with my gym is that it's got so many different locations both in the city of Philadelphia, the state of Pennsylvania and across the U.S., so she could go to any other location she feels like. I on the other hand, without a car, am restricted to the location most convenient to get to.
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
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The Down Side to Meeting Women in Gyms
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Same reason why I don't date people from work. Some days I wish I could though ... we got some hotties 
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Don't crap where you eat.
But also remember you are in complete control of your actions.
Set the proper frame of your "post-dating" relationship and things can be cool.
Things are only awkward (or whatever adjective you choose) if you allow them. Her frame should never be stronger than yours.
The only time you should HAVE to avoid an "ex-aquantince" is if she is truly phsyco.
But also remember you are in complete control of your actions.
Set the proper frame of your "post-dating" relationship and things can be cool.
Things are only awkward (or whatever adjective you choose) if you allow them. Her frame should never be stronger than yours.
The only time you should HAVE to avoid an "ex-aquantince" is if she is truly phsyco.