"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Do's And Dont's Of Keeping A Fuk Buddy?

soulforge

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any tips and advice guys?

currently i am banging my ex, after 2 years apart.. have zero inttention of a relationship with her.. just want to have some fun with her, till i get some other plates..

i noticed she seems to be texting me everyday.. when i don't reply back, she sends more text messages asking me if i am ok??.. blah blah


i am not in a relationship with her, so i don't see why i should be giving her the privilege of talking to me everyday!

how often should you be engaging in text conversation with a fuk buddy?? (especially if she was an ex)

any other tips and ideas, regarding maintaining a fuk buddy situation..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Starwolf

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srry to break it to ya but that's a relationship:down:

typical fbuddies text each other when setting up a f*ck date.

these could be each weekend tops or once a month, ever 2 months

just my $0.02
 

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Starwolf said:
srry to break it to ya but that's a relationship:down:

typical fbuddies text each other when setting up a f*ck date.

these could be each weekend tops or once a month, ever 2 months

just my $0.02

Yeh.. well she wants to be friends with benefits, yet she is texting every day.. she has just come out of a 5month relationship, so i,m guessing she needs a branch
 

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soulforge said:
Yeh.. well she wants to be friends with benefits, yet she is texting every day.. she has just come out of a 5month relationship, so i,m guessing she needs a branch
I see,

Well changing the dynamic at this moment will only cause drama. so don't go inserting any weird tactics. reply if you can and don't if you're genuinely busy.

for future fb's

- never ever argue or fight ( she's not ur gf)
- If they are getting b!tchy, create some space
- Always meet to have sex, u can hangout a bit but the end goal should be clear
- emotions rise and drop in FB relationships. always keep calm and don't act on them
- Don't do stuff out of fear of losing the FB. FB's come and go ( it's a beautiful thing) let them go they always come back so don't stress.
- keep ur fb's and your business with them private. ( with this i mean keep your social circles separate and on social media keep it to a bare minimum etc)
 
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