"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

The Door of Life

Vincent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2002
Messages
3,595
Reaction score
5
Age
40
We all start life in a dark room. In this room there is a door. We search around to find the door, and when we do we are faced with a hard and pressing question. Do we dare venture onwards, facing the blinding light that pours in every time we crack the door? Or do we leave the door closed, sit in the comfort of the dark and just try to find our way without ever trying anything?

Some people open the door; they go slow, cover their eyes and give themselves time to adjust to the blinding light. They see things clearer and they can understand what they have the courage and confidence to try things and live life.

Other people sit in the dark and allow themselves to walk blindly through life; they never see the whole picture and always lack the confidence and courage to try new things. They have some success, but they never learn the things they need.

There is another option. Some people don’t understand it but it’s out there. Some people get fed up sitting in the dark but they don’t know what to do to change it. They call out in the darkness. They call out for someone to help them, someone who’s been through the door, seen the outside, and experienced the pain of walking through. This person, or the guide, is faceless, nameless, and most of all won’t mock us for failure, but instead criticize us for not trying. This person will guide them through the door, tell them to cover there eyes, go slow, and just give it time. Once they get out the door they see the big picture. The guide can no longer help them anymore and the person must venture onward. They see the big picture and must face the pains of building courage and confidence.

This is the door of life. Whether we face it or avoid it the door is real, and the door is something that we come into question with again and again. After we open the door we must decide what to do. Do we stay around to show off the knowledge we’ve gained and criticize others? Or do we stay, give advice, learn to respect others, and wait as more people call out for help? These are the questions we must ask ourselves and decide if you are comfortable with the answer.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Layla

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2004
Messages
234
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Location
tx
exactly, this sites shows us the door but were the onres that have to walk through it.

Like the matrix when morpheus tells neo
 

Vincent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2002
Messages
3,595
Reaction score
5
Age
40
Originally posted by Layla
exactly, this sites shows us the door but were the onres that have to walk through it.

Like the matrix when morpheus tells neo
You're missing the point.
 

Fenderules

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 31, 2003
Messages
873
Reaction score
1
Age
40
Location
Alberta
lol funny analogy.





lol i like when ppl say "Vincent" in a british accent. It gets me every time.....prolly cause of the black guy on snath that yells "V--------------I--------N------------C---------E---------NT"



good movie
 

Vincent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2002
Messages
3,595
Reaction score
5
Age
40
Sigh, no one understands what I wrote :(
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Top