"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Don Juan Pledge of Honor

xanderbaz

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Originally posted by Etoile
...we now KNOW that you are "planning" to wait the 4,5,6..days not because you have the "i don't care" attitude, only because everyone play these games.
It's amazing how women are suddenly claiming that WE are the ones playing games... I don't need to explain WHY we do it, because many already have in this thread, but it just seemed like the biggest, most ironic hipocrisy I've recently heard. Women are the ones playing games, not us. You (women) complain about "games" and jerks and similar things, but you all know deep down that those are the things you love when it comes to us. And here we all know what happens to people following and sucking up to your likes and dislikes... AFCdom.
Go DJs!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ofus

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Originally posted by Etoile
i agree w/ vassago since the 4 day thing got old now and we now KNOW that you are "planning" to wait the 4,5,6..days
No, they don't.

When we don't call, they don't know whats going on. They don't know if we're waiting a few days to call, because they don't know for sure that we'll EVER call.
 

comic_relief

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I follow the pledge too

I was looking at some old posts and found this gem. You newbies need to read this.

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Crank_It_Up

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the pledge sucks as do most of the little dweebs that follow it... a real don juan doesn't give a fvck about a timetable as to when he calls a girl, heck most likely he already spent the first night with her... On the other hand, playing hard to get is not such a bad idea sometimes, but not good in all cases. The inability to play it by ear, and instead, follow a certain set of rules will prohibit you from thinking for yourself, and cause you to miss out on certain girls you may have otherwise landed. All girls are not the same and the same methods will not work for every girl. Learn to think for yourself and play it by ear.

The Don Juan Pledge should read like this:


1) Rejection always sucks but I'll never let it phase me in the least. It will never discourage me from approaching another girl.

2) When in doubt about approaching a girl, or asking for a date, I will always go for it.

3) When contemplating what to do next, see rule #2

4) When dealing with a girl who is just plain not interested in me, I will move on to the next, and not waste any time.

5) Jealousy is not in my vocabulary.

6) I will be perceptive of human nature, especially women, and learn to read them better than they know themselves.

7) I will become proficient in a wide variety of sexual techniques so I will be comfortable with whichever ones are working best for that particular girl.
 

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Originally posted by Mr Smooth Jr

I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESIRES AS A MAN. I LIKE TO FUC* WOMEN. end of story......



AMEN BROTHA!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cassanova_Child

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i guess i'm a boy scout now, cause i swear to live MY ENTIRE LIFE BY THIS PLEDGE!
 

Hidden-Hand

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hm

I accept this pledge and will honor its sayings.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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