"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Don Juan Pledge of Honor

xanderbaz

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Originally posted by Etoile
...we now KNOW that you are "planning" to wait the 4,5,6..days not because you have the "i don't care" attitude, only because everyone play these games.
It's amazing how women are suddenly claiming that WE are the ones playing games... I don't need to explain WHY we do it, because many already have in this thread, but it just seemed like the biggest, most ironic hipocrisy I've recently heard. Women are the ones playing games, not us. You (women) complain about "games" and jerks and similar things, but you all know deep down that those are the things you love when it comes to us. And here we all know what happens to people following and sucking up to your likes and dislikes... AFCdom.
Go DJs!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ofus

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Originally posted by Etoile
i agree w/ vassago since the 4 day thing got old now and we now KNOW that you are "planning" to wait the 4,5,6..days
No, they don't.

When we don't call, they don't know whats going on. They don't know if we're waiting a few days to call, because they don't know for sure that we'll EVER call.
 

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I follow the pledge too

I was looking at some old posts and found this gem. You newbies need to read this.

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Crank_It_Up

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the pledge sucks as do most of the little dweebs that follow it... a real don juan doesn't give a fvck about a timetable as to when he calls a girl, heck most likely he already spent the first night with her... On the other hand, playing hard to get is not such a bad idea sometimes, but not good in all cases. The inability to play it by ear, and instead, follow a certain set of rules will prohibit you from thinking for yourself, and cause you to miss out on certain girls you may have otherwise landed. All girls are not the same and the same methods will not work for every girl. Learn to think for yourself and play it by ear.

The Don Juan Pledge should read like this:


1) Rejection always sucks but I'll never let it phase me in the least. It will never discourage me from approaching another girl.

2) When in doubt about approaching a girl, or asking for a date, I will always go for it.

3) When contemplating what to do next, see rule #2

4) When dealing with a girl who is just plain not interested in me, I will move on to the next, and not waste any time.

5) Jealousy is not in my vocabulary.

6) I will be perceptive of human nature, especially women, and learn to read them better than they know themselves.

7) I will become proficient in a wide variety of sexual techniques so I will be comfortable with whichever ones are working best for that particular girl.
 

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Originally posted by Mr Smooth Jr

I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESIRES AS A MAN. I LIKE TO FUC* WOMEN. end of story......



AMEN BROTHA!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Cassanova_Child

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i guess i'm a boy scout now, cause i swear to live MY ENTIRE LIFE BY THIS PLEDGE!
 

Hidden-Hand

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I accept this pledge and will honor its sayings.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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