WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
Oh...well...i wouldn't know i haven't ever been in that position (and I pray to god that I never will
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The Don Juan Paradox
- Thread starter Jester
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)"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
its more fun when it is harder and you are not sure about the moves to make or what you to do. Which is why i am not sure if i am better off for finding this site.
the truth is Jester is that you need to find some girl that just rocks your world in more aspects than the bedroom, and that can be hard to find.
You are prolly still a little down about your G-F and i know i would be too.
if getting play is not important to you just do what you do and either you will find another girl you are interested in or you will get horny either way it will work out
the truth is Jester is that you need to find some girl that just rocks your world in more aspects than the bedroom, and that can be hard to find.
You are prolly still a little down about your G-F and i know i would be too.
if getting play is not important to you just do what you do and either you will find another girl you are interested in or you will get horny either way it will work out
Supero Masculus
Don Juan
Sounds to me like banging chicks gets real old pretty quickly. We'll simple solution is to not screw em', Have a high standard moral code and enjoy the presence of other people. It would seem to me that after not screwing chicks after a while would make you want it a again. Perhaps a journey to rethink your existence would help. Maybe your so used to everything around you and you feel like you need a change. Or maybe you need to get into religion. It's up to you how to live, just remeber that you got plenty of time to be dead.
Nah, thats the beauty of how i interpret being a Don Juan, about consequently observing and improving myself, its about being who i want to be and girls are only a small part of that. Its all about enjoying life.
Self motivation (im a fat one to talk, ridiculous i cant do any hw on time but . . .), do other things like take up new sports and new hobbies so that you have fun living life.
Self motivation (im a fat one to talk, ridiculous i cant do any hw on time but . . .), do other things like take up new sports and new hobbies so that you have fun living life.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i dont know, i posted about this too. Right now i have 3 girls i can call, but i dont know what it is... is it a different form of fear?
Im thinking - what exactly am i going to do with this girl? I want sex, but what else? Anything? Is it worth it?
The thing that makes me uneasy is that it could be another excuse of fear and me ending up with a hand full of ****...not that i mind that either....
shiet, i say push yourself. Thinking you are better without actually being better is one of the worst things in the human nature.
Im thinking - what exactly am i going to do with this girl? I want sex, but what else? Anything? Is it worth it?
The thing that makes me uneasy is that it could be another excuse of fear and me ending up with a hand full of ****...not that i mind that either....
shiet, i say push yourself. Thinking you are better without actually being better is one of the worst things in the human nature.
Ballistik
Don Juan
Am I the only one here that's more of a LTR DJ (well, DJ-in-training anyway)?
Well i do not want to have any more long term commitments at the moment. Plus you lose the thrill of the chase and i find that for me the LTR way (until im older and actually want to settle down) is more of an easy way out. It gives you stable sex, stable companionship and is a little more consuming. For me its like the idea of marriage and i do not want to be so constricted in my life, that this girl has priority.
I mean one or two LTRs have benefit in giving you experiance, but i want to live, i do not want to be tied down to anything more. It will take a large chunk of your life away from you. Plus you might end up marrying second best (even iif you believe in the one true love idea). I do not want to have spent my life with only 5 women.
I mean one or two LTRs have benefit in giving you experiance, but i want to live, i do not want to be tied down to anything more. It will take a large chunk of your life away from you. Plus you might end up marrying second best (even iif you believe in the one true love idea). I do not want to have spent my life with only 5 women.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.