WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
Oh...well...i wouldn't know i haven't ever been in that position (and I pray to god that I never will
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
The Don Juan Paradox
- Thread starter Jester
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)"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
its more fun when it is harder and you are not sure about the moves to make or what you to do. Which is why i am not sure if i am better off for finding this site.
the truth is Jester is that you need to find some girl that just rocks your world in more aspects than the bedroom, and that can be hard to find.
You are prolly still a little down about your G-F and i know i would be too.
if getting play is not important to you just do what you do and either you will find another girl you are interested in or you will get horny either way it will work out
the truth is Jester is that you need to find some girl that just rocks your world in more aspects than the bedroom, and that can be hard to find.
You are prolly still a little down about your G-F and i know i would be too.
if getting play is not important to you just do what you do and either you will find another girl you are interested in or you will get horny either way it will work out
Supero Masculus
Don Juan
Sounds to me like banging chicks gets real old pretty quickly. We'll simple solution is to not screw em', Have a high standard moral code and enjoy the presence of other people. It would seem to me that after not screwing chicks after a while would make you want it a again. Perhaps a journey to rethink your existence would help. Maybe your so used to everything around you and you feel like you need a change. Or maybe you need to get into religion. It's up to you how to live, just remeber that you got plenty of time to be dead.
Nah, thats the beauty of how i interpret being a Don Juan, about consequently observing and improving myself, its about being who i want to be and girls are only a small part of that. Its all about enjoying life.
Self motivation (im a fat one to talk, ridiculous i cant do any hw on time but . . .), do other things like take up new sports and new hobbies so that you have fun living life.
Self motivation (im a fat one to talk, ridiculous i cant do any hw on time but . . .), do other things like take up new sports and new hobbies so that you have fun living life.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
i dont know, i posted about this too. Right now i have 3 girls i can call, but i dont know what it is... is it a different form of fear?
Im thinking - what exactly am i going to do with this girl? I want sex, but what else? Anything? Is it worth it?
The thing that makes me uneasy is that it could be another excuse of fear and me ending up with a hand full of ****...not that i mind that either....
shiet, i say push yourself. Thinking you are better without actually being better is one of the worst things in the human nature.
Im thinking - what exactly am i going to do with this girl? I want sex, but what else? Anything? Is it worth it?
The thing that makes me uneasy is that it could be another excuse of fear and me ending up with a hand full of ****...not that i mind that either....
shiet, i say push yourself. Thinking you are better without actually being better is one of the worst things in the human nature.
Ballistik
Don Juan
Am I the only one here that's more of a LTR DJ (well, DJ-in-training anyway)?
Well i do not want to have any more long term commitments at the moment. Plus you lose the thrill of the chase and i find that for me the LTR way (until im older and actually want to settle down) is more of an easy way out. It gives you stable sex, stable companionship and is a little more consuming. For me its like the idea of marriage and i do not want to be so constricted in my life, that this girl has priority.
I mean one or two LTRs have benefit in giving you experiance, but i want to live, i do not want to be tied down to anything more. It will take a large chunk of your life away from you. Plus you might end up marrying second best (even iif you believe in the one true love idea). I do not want to have spent my life with only 5 women.
I mean one or two LTRs have benefit in giving you experiance, but i want to live, i do not want to be tied down to anything more. It will take a large chunk of your life away from you. Plus you might end up marrying second best (even iif you believe in the one true love idea). I do not want to have spent my life with only 5 women.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.