"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Don Juan Black Book Pt.2

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How To “Read” A Woman’s Words And Body Language
The Seven Deadly Body Language Sins
Body Language Mistakes Made With Hands
Body Language and Appearance
Body Language Clues She is Interested
The Six Don Juan Commandments of Body Language


Comfort/Rapport

Building Rapport
Comfort Building Routines
Boyfriending Technique
Rapport - Road Map To Connection
Eliciting Values Routine
How to Build Comfort During Conversations with Women
The Art of Comfort Building
Badboy on ‘Creating Deep and Wide Rapport’

Closing

Getting It On!
Going Through The Window
Nine Steps To A Solid Second Meeting
How To Kiss A Woman... Without Rejection
Getting Past Sexual Barriers
10 Steps To Great Kiss
Going In For The Kiss
Tips for Closing On The First Date
Kissing Techniques
How To Get The Kiss Within 5 Minutes of Meeting Her
How To Have Sex On The First Date

Dating
Various Articles
Chemistry And Sexual Tension Explained For Men
Dating Tips and Advice for Men*
PUA Skills

Demonstrate Value

The Concept of Demonstrating Value


Escalating

DiCarlo Escalation Ladder
Escalation Buying Temperature LockUp
Five Step Escalation Structure

Openers
Various Articles
Ultimate Opener Collection

Phone Game

Phone Game

Kino

The Art of Touch
Kino Seduction
The Kino Process
Three Basic Guidelines for Kino
Stylelife Handbook on Kino
Create a Physical Connection*
How to Touch Like James Bond Clearly Explained

Alpha Male

How to be an Alpha Male
MAN PERIOD! Do you suffer from manstruation?
Alpha Males Guide to Woman
5 Tips to Being A Powerful Man
Be a Man Not A Jerk
Be a Real ****ing Man
Alpha Attitudes
On Being an ***hole
Be Her Hero, not Her Wuss
What is an Alpha Male?
How to Become an Alpha Male
Girls Love Bad Boys
Why Girls Like Jerks
8 Vital Traits Men Need to Attract Women
Be a Nice Guy That “Gets Laid”
Be The Alpha Male
Wimps into Winners
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wow Andy some of those links are really good. I really enjoyed the DHV one. :)
 
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Props for making an updated DJ Bible.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Okay so I cant edit the first post, ill make another!

Get Your Head Straight: "Inner Game"

You Don’t Have to Be a Pimp
Overcoming Social and Sexual Anxiety
Why Pickup is Such a Big Deal
How to Build Confidence
Sex, Validation and Self-Concept
You Are Sexually Aggressive
How to Get Women to Do Exactly What You Want
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Get Started: Attraction & Early Game

Approach Women vs Opening Women
How to Talk to Complete Strangers Without Anxiety
Top 100 Universal Conversational Openers
How to Get Out of the Friend Zone
The Key to a Succesful First Date
What Makes Women Hot (or, Understanding Attraction)
How to Know When to Kiss a Girl
Art of Conversation - Part I, Opening
Art of Conversation - Part II, Vibing
Art of Conversation - Part III, Managing Threads
Art of Conversation - Part 4, Vocal Strength & Projection
Subcommunication I: Vocals
Subcommunication II: Body Language
The Basics of Fashion & Developing Personal Style
The Absolute Basics of Personal Hygiene
What Nightclubs are Good For
Seduction in College
Sh*tting where you Sleep (Or, Sleeping with your Housemates)
Surviving the Workplace Affair

Mid-Game

How to Turn a Woman On
Understanding and Disarming “Last Minute Resistance”
Buying Temperature and Buyer’s Remorse, and other Retail Analogies in Seduction
What Makes Sex Good
Social Energy in Seduction

Theres alot more, and I dont feel like posting it all right now, so it will come soon! Props to taiyuu_otoko for providing the links!
 
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