"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Don Juan Black Book Pt.2

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How To “Read” A Woman’s Words And Body Language
The Seven Deadly Body Language Sins
Body Language Mistakes Made With Hands
Body Language and Appearance
Body Language Clues She is Interested
The Six Don Juan Commandments of Body Language


Comfort/Rapport

Building Rapport
Comfort Building Routines
Boyfriending Technique
Rapport - Road Map To Connection
Eliciting Values Routine
How to Build Comfort During Conversations with Women
The Art of Comfort Building
Badboy on ‘Creating Deep and Wide Rapport’

Closing

Getting It On!
Going Through The Window
Nine Steps To A Solid Second Meeting
How To Kiss A Woman... Without Rejection
Getting Past Sexual Barriers
10 Steps To Great Kiss
Going In For The Kiss

Tips for Closing On The First Date
Kissing Techniques
How To Get The Kiss Within 5 Minutes of Meeting Her
How To Have Sex On The First Date

Dating
Various Articles
Chemistry And Sexual Tension Explained For Men
Dating Tips and Advice for Men*
PUA Skills

Demonstrate Value

The Concept of Demonstrating Value


Escalating

DiCarlo Escalation Ladder
Escalation Buying Temperature LockUp
Five Step Escalation Structure

Openers
Various Articles
Ultimate Opener Collection

Phone Game

Phone Game

Kino

The Art of Touch
Kino Seduction
The Kino Process
Three Basic Guidelines for Kino
Stylelife Handbook on Kino
Create a Physical Connection*
How to Touch Like James Bond Clearly Explained

Alpha Male

How to be an Alpha Male
MAN PERIOD! Do you suffer from manstruation?
Alpha Males Guide to Woman
5 Tips to Being A Powerful Man
Be a Man Not A Jerk
Be a Real ****ing Man
Alpha Attitudes
On Being an ***hole
Be Her Hero, not Her Wuss
What is an Alpha Male?
How to Become an Alpha Male
Girls Love Bad Boys
Why Girls Like Jerks
8 Vital Traits Men Need to Attract Women
Be a Nice Guy That “Gets Laid”
Be The Alpha Male
Wimps into Winners
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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AlexTheGreat

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Wow Andy some of those links are really good. I really enjoyed the DHV one. :)
 

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Props for making an updated DJ Bible.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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