"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The disturbing verbiage used on this site

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Sometimes I wonder if the posts I keep seeing here are just posts out of frustration, an outlet of aggression to those who are sour grapes perhaps?

The reason I ask this is that I see this rather cringe-worthy verbiage when it comes to bagging women like "I'd smash it" or the end game being "I'd smash it" or other crass lingo that's thrown about which probably is indicative of the frustration of those on this site.

There are others on here that are pretty non-partisan and offer some tips, but I think there's a good amount of former nice guys that have been burned so many times that they really may not possibly act as they do on here, in real life. That this place is more of a soundboard, chest thumbing and such, coming off that they just took a woman home and give their testimony on here what they did with a woman they brought home from a bar and the kind of talent it took to do so.

I'm not offended by it at all, but the verbiage does seem to reflect the two wrongs making a right, yes? No?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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  1. "I'd smash/smashed" is not disturbing verbiage. There's worse shít to say. Stop being sensitive.
  2. Verbiage is a hilarious word. It sounds like a word someone trying to be percieved as insightful would use.
  3. There are bitter men here but they are in the minority. You can usually tell from the ideas they present rather than specific vUrbiAGe
 

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It's just your perception of it, given your age or the generation you are from. Smash is just the
"slang" term the younger generation uses. I want to say it became more popular about 5yrs or so ago, possibly more.

My generation would use banging or hitting it. Getting laid. Tappin that a**. There's plenty of others slang terms.
 

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@ThisNThat is a female poster masquerading as a man. She is 45 years old by her profile. You don't grow up in the era of Wayne's World/Austin Powers and not know what smash a chick, etc means, much less call it "angry" verbiage
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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@ThisNThat is a female poster masquerading as a man. She is 45 years old by her profile. You don't grow up in the era of Wayne's World/Austin Powers and not know what smash a chick, etc means, much less call it "angry" verbiage
Indeed. She has exposed herself as a woman in a post she deleted quickly but this one takes it to another level. Locked for uselessness.
 
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