"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The disturbing verbiage used on this site

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ThisNThat

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Sometimes I wonder if the posts I keep seeing here are just posts out of frustration, an outlet of aggression to those who are sour grapes perhaps?

The reason I ask this is that I see this rather cringe-worthy verbiage when it comes to bagging women like "I'd smash it" or the end game being "I'd smash it" or other crass lingo that's thrown about which probably is indicative of the frustration of those on this site.

There are others on here that are pretty non-partisan and offer some tips, but I think there's a good amount of former nice guys that have been burned so many times that they really may not possibly act as they do on here, in real life. That this place is more of a soundboard, chest thumbing and such, coming off that they just took a woman home and give their testimony on here what they did with a woman they brought home from a bar and the kind of talent it took to do so.

I'm not offended by it at all, but the verbiage does seem to reflect the two wrongs making a right, yes? No?
 

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  1. "I'd smash/smashed" is not disturbing verbiage. There's worse shít to say. Stop being sensitive.
  2. Verbiage is a hilarious word. It sounds like a word someone trying to be percieved as insightful would use.
  3. There are bitter men here but they are in the minority. You can usually tell from the ideas they present rather than specific vUrbiAGe
 

hockeyfreak79

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It's just your perception of it, given your age or the generation you are from. Smash is just the
"slang" term the younger generation uses. I want to say it became more popular about 5yrs or so ago, possibly more.

My generation would use banging or hitting it. Getting laid. Tappin that a**. There's plenty of others slang terms.
 

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@ThisNThat is a female poster masquerading as a man. She is 45 years old by her profile. You don't grow up in the era of Wayne's World/Austin Powers and not know what smash a chick, etc means, much less call it "angry" verbiage
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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El Payaso

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@ThisNThat is a female poster masquerading as a man. She is 45 years old by her profile. You don't grow up in the era of Wayne's World/Austin Powers and not know what smash a chick, etc means, much less call it "angry" verbiage
Indeed. She has exposed herself as a woman in a post she deleted quickly but this one takes it to another level. Locked for uselessness.
 
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