"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Direct Approach

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I went out with some guys from college on Friday night and had a "few drinks" (and by a few drinks, I mean 12+ beers). At the place we were at, after many beers, I noticed that there happened to be a bunch of girls who I've seen around campus grounds. To make a long story short, I approached the group and made a bunch of rather crude remarks. Examples: "Nice top sweetheart, really accentuates your tits." And "How many kocks do you girls normally eat by the end of Friday night?" And "Damn you got hairy arms. I bet you don't shave your cvnt." Those were some of the more choice lines I used. In return they called me a "fvckhead" (along with a bunch of other names) and told me to "just fvck off"... but I didn't. I followed them around and harrassed them.

Regrettably I'm going to have see these girls around campus tomorrow. And even more regrettably, these girls are GOSSIP QUEENS. I don't want to further tarnish my already questionable college reputation. So do I apologise for this sort of stuff or just let it slide?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i think you're posting on the wrong website.

http://www.toplad.org/

haha, dont sweat it man, the apology is going to make no difference at all. If its college or uni, then the girls will gossip anyway.

maybe say hello if you see them, but its not worth apologising.

I should also add, that I find it hilarious.
 
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Aw I love a story which ends in a cell.

haha I'm guessing you're going to cut down on the booze next time.
 
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Yes I really should cut down on the liqour, as it's not the first time I've clowned myself whilst on the sauce.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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