"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Difference Between Cute and Hot?

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Okay i want to know what the difference between cute and hot is. All my life from girls i get. Wow yer cute and bla bla bla but what is the difference between cute and hot?

Cute as in ill date or and Hot as in ill **** you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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im not completly sure but i rekin hot is better then cute, but cute is better then nothing, think of it this way, you hear girls saying that puppie is so cute, they wont call it hot. Either way they will like you more so you do not have much to worry about, when they say hot they mean guys which work out, and have a 6 pack etc..
 
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The girl next door that your mom wants you to get together with is cute.

The slut down the street that you're interested in is hot.
 
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Originally posted by Sweet Ken
The girl next door that your mom wants you to get together with is cute.

The slut down the street that you're interested in is hot.
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I think he's refering to when your called hot or cute.

Well cute can be many things, it depends how they say it.

Puppy dog style: Cute friend, not lover :\
Kidding style: Your getting in the good zone, work harder
Serious style: she thinks your pretty good looking and probably have a good personality

Hot is pretty simple. If she thinks a guy is hot she thinks he has a good body and looks good, but they'll never seriously tell you to its face, so don't expect it or feel bad not having it.
 
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okay dj's you guys got it wrong but i dont blame u. i didnt know the answer to this until today.....

Orlando Bloom = Cute
Brad pitt= Hot

what makes a guy cute?

to clear things up, a woman thinks a guy is cute as opposed to "hot" if he has girlish features, such as soft skin, plucked eyebrows, well groomed.

What makes a guy hot?

nice big body, think of a gardener in a porn movie, or a pool boy.
chistled abs, big arms, nice face.

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just to clear it up a little bit, both are good, and to tell you the truth, i wouldnt mind lookin like orlando bloom, damn he is a lucky *****.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cute = yeah, nice looking. Interesting......
Hot = laid.
 
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