“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The definition of a Don Juan

ARK

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Im curious. In the DJ bible is a glossary of terms but no definition of a Don Juan. So what is the definition of a Don Juan?

This should be interesting. :woo:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HuuBinh

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Don't take other people's definition, create your own, because most of us in here have our own definition. How do you define a don juan through your experiences and knowledge?
 

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Good answer...
But my opinion of a D.J is:
1.) He glows with a aura of confidence
2.) He dominates any room
3.) He talks, people listen
4.) He is always in controle
5.) He doesnt need woman to be happy

Here is the official definition in the dictionary:
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Don Juan (dn wn)
n.

A man who is an obsessive seducer of women, especially one who does so out of feelings of impotence or inferiority.
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Lost In Translation

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Don Juan

1. his pleasure comes first
2. he will quickly dump a woman who gives him trouble
3. doesn’t suck up to women or put them on pedestals
4. doesn’t let women or people disrespect him.
5. Gets pissed off and isn’t afraid to show it
6. Aren’t afraid to hurt women emotionally.
7. Doesn’t care what others think about him and isn’t looking for approval.


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Wiesman44

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Interesting thought here. You say a Don Juan doesn't need women to be happy. Yet, a Don Juan pretty much always has women. I mean, a true Don Juan will be very socialable, and have women flocking to him. I mean, if you have a 3 month span without any women, thats no big deal. But if it starts going to a year or more, ANY person will start to feel depressed about not getting any a$$. I dont care who you are.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BrotherAP

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That's because sex is like money. It's not that important until you're not getting any.

Naturally, a man who has lots of women needs any individual woman less.
 

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Re: Don Juan

Originally posted by Lost In Translation
5. Gets pissed off and isn’t afraid to show it

A Don Juan does not get pissed off easily. He is not hijacked by his emotions, yelling and blows off steam or kick the sh1t out of everyone. That is more a behaviour of a thug who wants to scare everyone. People do not respect him but fear him. It is only useful tactic if you hang alot on the "mean" streets and bad areas where you do need the mentality of a pitbull.

He should be calm and collected but that does not mean he is a pvssy. If a situation arise where he has to defend himself or others then he should be able to kick ass otherwise if he can, he should avoid the situation or not get himself into those situations.

Although every situation is different and one cannot perscribe "the apporopriate" response to each one.
 

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A Don Juan does not get pissed off easily

i never said EASILY

yes i can see where you are coming from

but we live in a society where men play it too cool and tolerate too much $hit from women and other people

you have to stand up for yourself because no one else will

anger unchecked is of no use i agree

but righteous indignation ie. angry when wronged is a NATURAL REACTION

you need it

keep it in check for sure but you still need this fire on occasion to sort people out

we are taught today as a man YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO GET ANGRY. that is not good. we keep bottling up or emotions.

we are told we are not supposed to feel BLAH BLAH BLAH

society is f*cking us up emotionally by denying our natural reactions to situations.

we cannot forget we are men.


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DJDamage

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
A Don Juan does not get pissed off easily

but we live in a society where men play it too cool and tolerate too much $hit from women and other people

you have to stand up for yourself because no one else will

Agreed.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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