"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The definition of a Don Juan
- Thread starter ARK
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mr.De Beer
Don Juan
Good answer...
But my opinion of a D.J is:
1.) He glows with a aura of confidence
2.) He dominates any room
3.) He talks, people listen
4.) He is always in controle
5.) He doesnt need woman to be happy
Here is the official definition in the dictionary:
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Don Juan (dn wn)
n.
A man who is an obsessive seducer of women, especially one who does so out of feelings of impotence or inferiority.
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Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
1. his pleasure comes first
2. he will quickly dump a woman who gives him trouble
3. doesn’t suck up to women or put them on pedestals
4. doesn’t let women or people disrespect him.
5. Gets pissed off and isn’t afraid to show it
6. Aren’t afraid to hurt women emotionally.
7. Doesn’t care what others think about him and isn’t looking for approval.
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
A Don Juan does not get pissed off easily. He is not hijacked by his emotions, yelling and blows off steam or kick the sh1t out of everyone. That is more a behaviour of a thug who wants to scare everyone. People do not respect him but fear him. It is only useful tactic if you hang alot on the "mean" streets and bad areas where you do need the mentality of a pitbull.
He should be calm and collected but that does not mean he is a pvssy. If a situation arise where he has to defend himself or others then he should be able to kick ass otherwise if he can, he should avoid the situation or not get himself into those situations.
Although every situation is different and one cannot perscribe "the apporopriate" response to each one.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
i never said EASILY
yes i can see where you are coming from
but we live in a society where men play it too cool and tolerate too much $hit from women and other people
you have to stand up for yourself because no one else will
anger unchecked is of no use i agree
but righteous indignation ie. angry when wronged is a NATURAL REACTION
you need it
keep it in check for sure but you still need this fire on occasion to sort people out
we are taught today as a man YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO GET ANGRY. that is not good. we keep bottling up or emotions.
we are told we are not supposed to feel BLAH BLAH BLAH
society is f*cking us up emotionally by denying our natural reactions to situations.
we cannot forget we are men.
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.