"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Decline of Poor White America

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http://www.npr.org/sections/health-...g-middle-aged-white-peoples-deaths-of-despair

...a lack of steady, well-paying jobs for whites without college degrees has caused pain, distress and social dysfunction to build up over time. The mortality rate for that group, ages 45 to 54, increased by a half percent each year from 1999 to 2013.

...suicides were going up rapidly, and that overdoses mostly from prescription drugs were going up, and that alcoholic liver disease was going up.

These deaths of despair have been accompanied by reduced labor force participation, reduced marriage rates, increases in reports of poor health and poor mental health. So we are beginning to thread a story in that it's possible that [the trend is] consistent with the labor market collapsing for people with less than a college degree. In turn, those people are being less able to form stable marriages, and in turn that has effects on the kind of economic and social supports that people need in order to thrive.

...It's as if poorly educated whites have now taken over from blacks as the lowest rung of society in terms of mortality rates.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What's your point? We all know poor white people are struggling right now.
 

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Weirdly enough, that looks to semi-follow major drug use in the white community. 80s and 90s gave way to 'Just Say No To Drugs' campaign, remember?
 

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http://www.npr.org/sections/health-...g-middle-aged-white-peoples-deaths-of-despair

...a lack of steady, well-paying jobs for whites without college degrees has caused pain, distress and social dysfunction to build up over time. The mortality rate for that group, ages 45 to 54, increased by a half percent each year from 1999 to 2013.

...suicides were going up rapidly, and that overdoses mostly from prescription drugs were going up, and that alcoholic liver disease was going up.

These deaths of despair have been accompanied by reduced labor force participation, reduced marriage rates, increases in reports of poor health and poor mental health. So we are beginning to thread a story in that it's possible that [the trend is] consistent with the labor market collapsing for people with less than a college degree. In turn, those people are being less able to form stable marriages, and in turn that has effects on the kind of economic and social supports that people need in order to thrive.

...It's as if poorly educated whites have now taken over from blacks as the lowest rung of society in terms of mortality rates.
And folks still run around saying MONEY doesn't matter?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Many white people I know are poor because they choose to be. They like those guaranteed food stamps and free Internet to use 18 hours a day. The Government has made working a choice in recent decades and many choose that lifestyle. Used to be if you didn't work you didn't eat.
 

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Well, all you have to do is quit your job, follow your dreams and the money will follow! :cool:
Or better yet, just believe in the Law of Attraction lol. Stand in the middle of the room repeating, "I'm a Millionaire" over and over, believe it, and it will come true:rofl:
 

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The Government has made working a choice in recent decades and many choose that lifestyle. Used to be if you didn't work you didn't eat.
Safety nets are nice in theory, but they tend to create "moral hazard," or disencentives to work. Why would any rational person work a crappy job for minimum wage when they could get benefits (even less $$) for doing nothing?

 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Or better yet, just believe in the Law of Attraction lol. Stand in the middle of the room repeating, "I'm a Millionaire" over and over, believe it, and it will come true:rofl:
Is that like when they say "I'm the prize, I'm the prize!!" over and over, believe it and it will come true?

.....regardless of Sexual Market Value.....
 

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Safety nets are nice in theory, but they tend to create "moral hazard," or disencentives to work. Why would any rational person work a crappy job for minimum wage when they could get benefits (even less $$) for doing nothing?
You are absolutely right. That's why we should raise the minimum wage.
 
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You are absolutely right. That's why we should raise the minimum wage.
Yup. Instead he would rather subsidize it himself by paying higher taxes that fund welfare, rather than make the corporations pay a living wage that will de-incentivize welfare. No sense.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No it wouldn't. The converse is true.
Well, plenty of economists (who don't work for the government and will say anything to get votes or keep their jobs) disagree.

Thomas Sowell - Basic Economics

Economics for Real People

Proof that Rising Minimum Wage Will Increase Unemployment

However, it doesn't really matter as the number of people on welfare, the number of homeless AND the minimum wage will keep increasing.

AND poor white people will continue to off themselves with drugs/alcohol.

Deaths of Despair’ Are Surging Among the White Working Class

A few goofs on arguing on the internet won't stop this death train.
 

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The ghetto minorities in inner cities are always told they are too lazy. When whites are poor.. its someone else's fault.
It's pretty much the opposite of that.
 

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You are absolutely right. That's why we should raise the minimum wage.
Yup. Instead he would rather subsidize it himself by paying higher taxes that fund welfare, rather than make the corporations pay a living wage that will de-incentivize welfare. No sense.
No it wouldn't. The converse is true.
Going to need to see some evidence. Democratic politicians don't count. From my vantage point welfare does nothing but quarantine poor people and keep them alive.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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