"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Decline of Poor White America

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http://www.npr.org/sections/health-...g-middle-aged-white-peoples-deaths-of-despair

...a lack of steady, well-paying jobs for whites without college degrees has caused pain, distress and social dysfunction to build up over time. The mortality rate for that group, ages 45 to 54, increased by a half percent each year from 1999 to 2013.

...suicides were going up rapidly, and that overdoses mostly from prescription drugs were going up, and that alcoholic liver disease was going up.

These deaths of despair have been accompanied by reduced labor force participation, reduced marriage rates, increases in reports of poor health and poor mental health. So we are beginning to thread a story in that it's possible that [the trend is] consistent with the labor market collapsing for people with less than a college degree. In turn, those people are being less able to form stable marriages, and in turn that has effects on the kind of economic and social supports that people need in order to thrive.

...It's as if poorly educated whites have now taken over from blacks as the lowest rung of society in terms of mortality rates.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What's your point? We all know poor white people are struggling right now.
 

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Weirdly enough, that looks to semi-follow major drug use in the white community. 80s and 90s gave way to 'Just Say No To Drugs' campaign, remember?
 

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http://www.npr.org/sections/health-...g-middle-aged-white-peoples-deaths-of-despair

...a lack of steady, well-paying jobs for whites without college degrees has caused pain, distress and social dysfunction to build up over time. The mortality rate for that group, ages 45 to 54, increased by a half percent each year from 1999 to 2013.

...suicides were going up rapidly, and that overdoses mostly from prescription drugs were going up, and that alcoholic liver disease was going up.

These deaths of despair have been accompanied by reduced labor force participation, reduced marriage rates, increases in reports of poor health and poor mental health. So we are beginning to thread a story in that it's possible that [the trend is] consistent with the labor market collapsing for people with less than a college degree. In turn, those people are being less able to form stable marriages, and in turn that has effects on the kind of economic and social supports that people need in order to thrive.

...It's as if poorly educated whites have now taken over from blacks as the lowest rung of society in terms of mortality rates.
And folks still run around saying MONEY doesn't matter?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Many white people I know are poor because they choose to be. They like those guaranteed food stamps and free Internet to use 18 hours a day. The Government has made working a choice in recent decades and many choose that lifestyle. Used to be if you didn't work you didn't eat.
 

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Well, all you have to do is quit your job, follow your dreams and the money will follow! :cool:
Or better yet, just believe in the Law of Attraction lol. Stand in the middle of the room repeating, "I'm a Millionaire" over and over, believe it, and it will come true:rofl:
 

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The Government has made working a choice in recent decades and many choose that lifestyle. Used to be if you didn't work you didn't eat.
Safety nets are nice in theory, but they tend to create "moral hazard," or disencentives to work. Why would any rational person work a crappy job for minimum wage when they could get benefits (even less $$) for doing nothing?

 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Or better yet, just believe in the Law of Attraction lol. Stand in the middle of the room repeating, "I'm a Millionaire" over and over, believe it, and it will come true:rofl:
Is that like when they say "I'm the prize, I'm the prize!!" over and over, believe it and it will come true?

.....regardless of Sexual Market Value.....
 

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Safety nets are nice in theory, but they tend to create "moral hazard," or disencentives to work. Why would any rational person work a crappy job for minimum wage when they could get benefits (even less $$) for doing nothing?
You are absolutely right. That's why we should raise the minimum wage.
 
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You are absolutely right. That's why we should raise the minimum wage.
Yup. Instead he would rather subsidize it himself by paying higher taxes that fund welfare, rather than make the corporations pay a living wage that will de-incentivize welfare. No sense.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No it wouldn't. The converse is true.
Well, plenty of economists (who don't work for the government and will say anything to get votes or keep their jobs) disagree.

Thomas Sowell - Basic Economics

Economics for Real People

Proof that Rising Minimum Wage Will Increase Unemployment

However, it doesn't really matter as the number of people on welfare, the number of homeless AND the minimum wage will keep increasing.

AND poor white people will continue to off themselves with drugs/alcohol.

Deaths of Despair’ Are Surging Among the White Working Class

A few goofs on arguing on the internet won't stop this death train.
 

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The ghetto minorities in inner cities are always told they are too lazy. When whites are poor.. its someone else's fault.
It's pretty much the opposite of that.
 

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You are absolutely right. That's why we should raise the minimum wage.
Yup. Instead he would rather subsidize it himself by paying higher taxes that fund welfare, rather than make the corporations pay a living wage that will de-incentivize welfare. No sense.
No it wouldn't. The converse is true.
Going to need to see some evidence. Democratic politicians don't count. From my vantage point welfare does nothing but quarantine poor people and keep them alive.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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