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The day after

Jumpman23

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To call or text next day after hooking up?

The day after....? so I met up with this girl I have been hanging out w/ for a couple months last night, after the bar she invites me to her place, of course i accept I go over to her place and the mood is set. She begins to dim the lights, lights a candle and turns on some jazz/blues music. It was as if she was seducing me....she really did not have to try though, b/c my mindset was already there. We hookup and she gives me an hj/ bj. First truly sexual intimate encounter, relationship progressing. As we are hooking up she asks, where do you get your sex tips from? Which I did not really know how to respond to this, I was caught off guard, I just stated TBD...to be determined for her.
overall i had a good time w/ her last night, she was basically willing to do whatever for me. i know that i need to follow up with something tommorrow, to let her know i enjoyed her presence, so she will not feel used.


Should I give her call or text her tommorrow and say something like " had a good time last night " DJ's what do you recommend.
 
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Don't call the next day.

Call in half a week.

And maybe I misinterpreted but if you hook up with her again perhaps focus not solely on the experience of getting your nuts off but rather pleasuring her so that you do not need to call, she begs you for that lovin?
 

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so basically recommend not calling or text today.
n e other suggestions?
i don't want her to feel used and like a $lut.
she is not one night stand material, as this is progessing into a relationship
 
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