"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The day after

Jumpman23

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To call or text next day after hooking up?

The day after....? so I met up with this girl I have been hanging out w/ for a couple months last night, after the bar she invites me to her place, of course i accept I go over to her place and the mood is set. She begins to dim the lights, lights a candle and turns on some jazz/blues music. It was as if she was seducing me....she really did not have to try though, b/c my mindset was already there. We hookup and she gives me an hj/ bj. First truly sexual intimate encounter, relationship progressing. As we are hooking up she asks, where do you get your sex tips from? Which I did not really know how to respond to this, I was caught off guard, I just stated TBD...to be determined for her.
overall i had a good time w/ her last night, she was basically willing to do whatever for me. i know that i need to follow up with something tommorrow, to let her know i enjoyed her presence, so she will not feel used.


Should I give her call or text her tommorrow and say something like " had a good time last night " DJ's what do you recommend.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't call the next day.

Call in half a week.

And maybe I misinterpreted but if you hook up with her again perhaps focus not solely on the experience of getting your nuts off but rather pleasuring her so that you do not need to call, she begs you for that lovin?
 

Jumpman23

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so basically recommend not calling or text today.
n e other suggestions?
i don't want her to feel used and like a $lut.
she is not one night stand material, as this is progessing into a relationship
 
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