"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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After three dates I ended up sleeping with this girl for the first time. Slept over at her place and she made me breakfast french toast and eggs.
We spent the day in chicago at Millennium park, the Art Institute, and a local bar to watch some college football.

Throughout the night she was sending me texts:
"I like the view from here."
"I want to kiss you later tonight."


What's the ideal text after sex w/ a girl for the first time? Thinking about...
"had a great time this wknd"
 

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have you already established a pattern of communicating with her via text (other than to facilitate real-life meetings)?

what does "had a great time" accomplish for you? is acting solely to placate your perception of her feelings something that benefits you?
 
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we have established some communication via text. She likes to text. I have only called her once on the phone.

I really only wanted to send her a text, to indicate I am interested (make her feel good).
 
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I'm not seeing any benefit to telling her that you "had a great time last night." Every time I tried that after a date (early on), the chick's interest level decreased.

Remember, she doesn't give a sh*t about how you feel. It's all about her. She's enjoying being with you, so it's all good. I know you like being with her, and that's great, but no need to verbalize it, at least not for a while.

It's better to take the texts she sent you and work with those in a seductive or flirty/teasing manner.

Girl: I'm thinking about kissing you.
Mike: Maybe....
Mike: I mean I could look you in the eyes deeply...
Mike: Then brush your hair aside...
Mike: Then lean in slowly...
Girl: Mmmm tell me more....
Mike: <continue with sensual/seductive story >

Done right, she'll get pretty wet. Or alternatively use some teasing...

Girl: I'm thinking about kissing you.
Mike: I'd like to kiss you....if you're being a good girl today ;)
 

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Aaron B said:
she's knows you are interested

you made her feel good with your penis, isn't that enough?
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The penis is nothing without the text!!!!
 
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