"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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the day after text sex

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After three dates I ended up sleeping with this girl for the first time. Slept over at her place and she made me breakfast french toast and eggs.
We spent the day in chicago at Millennium park, the Art Institute, and a local bar to watch some college football.

Throughout the night she was sending me texts:
"I like the view from here."
"I want to kiss you later tonight."


What's the ideal text after sex w/ a girl for the first time? Thinking about...
"had a great time this wknd"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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have you already established a pattern of communicating with her via text (other than to facilitate real-life meetings)?

what does "had a great time" accomplish for you? is acting solely to placate your perception of her feelings something that benefits you?
 
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we have established some communication via text. She likes to text. I have only called her once on the phone.

I really only wanted to send her a text, to indicate I am interested (make her feel good).
 
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I'm not seeing any benefit to telling her that you "had a great time last night." Every time I tried that after a date (early on), the chick's interest level decreased.

Remember, she doesn't give a sh*t about how you feel. It's all about her. She's enjoying being with you, so it's all good. I know you like being with her, and that's great, but no need to verbalize it, at least not for a while.

It's better to take the texts she sent you and work with those in a seductive or flirty/teasing manner.

Girl: I'm thinking about kissing you.
Mike: Maybe....
Mike: I mean I could look you in the eyes deeply...
Mike: Then brush your hair aside...
Mike: Then lean in slowly...
Girl: Mmmm tell me more....
Mike: <continue with sensual/seductive story >

Done right, she'll get pretty wet. Or alternatively use some teasing...

Girl: I'm thinking about kissing you.
Mike: I'd like to kiss you....if you're being a good girl today ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Aaron B said:
she's knows you are interested

you made her feel good with your penis, isn't that enough?
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The penis is nothing without the text!!!!
 
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