"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The DaVinci Library

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NOTE: This is NOT an OFFICIAL BIBLE.~Capi

Thy DaVinci Library Part I

Thee Proem [has nothing to do with DJism. Just a good Introduction]

MOTIVATION 101

"I have run out of ways to fail; now I can only succeed!!!" -Rx

MUST READ - BBBoy

GET OUT OF THAT D*MN COMFORT ZONE - stuartSan

Hmmm.... So What do you want to remember??? - photo 1

But She's a Percfect Girl.... Right? - bust.it

Whats this Suave DJ you want me to be??? - dcfball

Sooo.... How do I become this 'Don Juan' You talk of??? - Pook [be a man post]

But I'm sooo Afraid of asking her out - Walden

Be STRONG and Don't halter - So pimp its scary

Sooo DJ Means a Jerk??? - Mr. Fingers [Shattering the Limits]

Hmmm... But Women are so Complex ... - Deep Dish

A little Bathroom Reading - hannibal82

So What should I do now??? - Raven125

Take Action... But how??? - whatsupwiddat

Read This and be off on Your Don Juaning Ways... - De La Soul [Red-XL post]

Instilling that Confidence
*WARNING* I must tell you in advance all the advice you recieve here is a placebo. It boosts your confidence. You already have the DJ in you. You just need some confidence to bring it out. That being said. Here you are. *WARNING*

Pook

Eye Contact. Baby Steps - Jack

The Science of DJ - Cloud-uk

If You Don't take a shot. You Miss 100% of the time - improvingdonjuan

An open Palm will make you feel like doing something - JB101

Well Ladies and Gents Pretty Much... You Gotta have FAITH... Yeah I said You gotta have FAITH.. Sing it with me now...you gotta have...FAITH - DjDreamer

BoyScoutt Modo... Be Prepared - Hot Ice

PUA theroy. - Eric Smith

The Final Word on Confidence - CHALENGE GUY

Here's a Kick in the As*. Now go Out there and put this shi* into action - Cloud-uk

Like I said Get The F*CK out there - WinterFruit

Some Simple DJ Tips - CapiCrimini

You Got the confidence. Now shape yourself into who you want to be. - Nocturnal

Now Put those Dreams into Effect - photo 1
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Shyness

Beat Self-Conciousness

The BrainWash Technique

Mr. Fingers.... Must I say more?

Some Tips

I'm running out of stuff to title these. :eek:

The Road To a Better Voice

Got the St-St-Stutterin Bug. - Thanks To Mercenary

A Book For Your Voice?

Again With The Fingers

The Devil in the Flesh... Yeah Acme

Quick Guide to Acme

Best Face Care Thread Yet

Designer Colonge... Or BO...???

Most mentioned Colonges on DJ fourm.

Some Colonges Rated

Ultimate Colonge Poll

Really Isn't worthy but... Axe... yeah I said it... Sh*t in a bottle:rolleyes:

Now You Got it... How do You use It???

Deodarant.com

Diet and exercise

Bulk Up

Cut Up

25 Power Foods

The BF% of Abbs???

Look For all you Guys. All you need is to look fit... not Ripped. :rolleyes:

If you Look there's tons more in the Health Fourm.

Race

lol. I could post links to this. But really race does not play that much into DJing.If you like the hype look it up yourself. If you can Dj once race you can DJ another. :D

Learn to accept it.

As to how different girls of different races act it goes something like

White- All over the chart. From shy to wild
Black- More on the wild side
Latino-Aslo on the wild side [Note some people feel they are docile and family oriented]
Arabian- little more laid back and AFC chick type
Japanese, Chinese- AFC chick like above, like to stay within there own race
Korean, Vietmanese(sp?)- More laid back to multi-racial relationships
Eupopeans and Canadians- A little more pleasant then Americans and easier to Kino and start a convo. with

I think I got that right. Of course all of these are generalzations and are just observations I've made and I've heard other make. These are not the tell all rules, more of rules of thumb

Yeah man Threads and hairdues

A Good basic Wordrobe..2 Plain white t-shirts, Black t-shirt, Long Sleeved White shirt, Grey t-shirt, Black Jeans,Light blue Jeans, Medium Jeans(faded jeans are a plus) 1 kaki colred pants, Leather Jacket. 1 Hoodie, Italian Belt, 4 Button shirts(differnt styles and colors.), 4 T-shirts ,4 Polo Shirts, White socks, and a pair of dark dress socks, One suit(JC Penny has decent suits), 2 ties. 1 dress shoe, 1 casual, 1 sneaker, 1 golf shoe. 1 golf glove.

Brand Names to look for...
Tommy Hilfiger
Ralph Lauren
Nautica
Polo
A&F
Structure
Banna Republic
Gap
Gucci
Diesel
Error
Parasuco
Armani
Von Dutch
Anthing Italian Really
Ect,

Shoes

Jeans

Hair. Alot of tips in here

(It's not up at the time of this posting)But it lets you see what the hair style looks like on you.

Another Wardrobe

Good Hairstyle site

Good Tips

An example of a nice polo shirt.lol. Hell I'm bored(it's an exapmle of a fun shirt to the above post)

Color Contacts for that extra Umphh... Yes or No?

Laundry Time!!!!!!!!

Watch thread. Yeah There the expensive ones

If you just want a decent watch go to a JCpennys or whatever and buy a plain silver watch. Skip the gold lines and all that. Just Get a plain silver. It's simple and plain. Golds really for older people and player want-to-be's. Silver is sleak and new. Plus it's simple and looks good.
 
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Like almost all of my works as DaVinci. this one Remains incomplete. I thought I'd post what I had done a while back.

Even in it's shadow of what it could have been. It still shows some good posts that arn't too well known.

I called it Library because It Truly isn't a bible, rather a Collection
 

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It would be nice if you fixed the URLs.
****... do the URL's not work... I'll put in the realy authors... by the way... I'll give props to RedxL right here... i don't remember what exactly is his and mine... So some of the stuff I forgot to quote to Red-XL... if you look at the original Davinci Posts I think that would be in there

****... the URL problem is I changed them all to .NET but I have to change /vbullitin to /forums still....

I'll do that right away... Damn .net change

FIXED... thats all better. I'll add the poster names next...

Keep in mind this is an Unfinsihed thing... so I might add more to teh DJ side... I never go that far before... sort of abbandoned it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mods - delete this bullshyt thread!!! What is it's purpose???

This pvssy is calling Latina women 'wild' - they are for the most part meek and docile and children/family oriented compared to the wild rapacious masculine 'white' hors!!!
 

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Mods - delete this bullshyt thread!!! What is it's purpose???
What is any threads purpose? To teach and help out the forum.

I added some posts that are and arn't so well known but are good for reading.

This pvssy is calling Latina women 'wild' - they are for the most part meek and docile and children/family oriented compared to the wild rapacious masculine 'white' hors!!!
I added a special note just for you:p ... feel better now?
 

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I can always appreciate some hard work for a good cause to help us out. Thanks man!

EDIT: you shouldn't change what you originally wrote about Latinos. Its is your personal opinion from your personal experience (assuming you aren't bullshiting us). Everyone should know this... But yea.. it is a bit stereotypical. If it were me, I just wouldn't have been so specific.
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Mods - delete this bullshyt thread!!! What is it's purpose???

This pvssy is calling Latina women 'wild' - they are for the most part meek and docile and children/family oriented compared to the wild rapacious masculine 'white' hors!!!
You're both right ....

Latina women are actually quite wild, I've known more than a few and I'll tell you the central and south american types know how to have a crazy good old time.

On the other hand they have a less corrupted socialital type family structure that involves her becoming b;tchy about the smallest of issues and her father or brother or even unrelated men to stick their noses into your own buisness when your banging one of those latina girls.

That isn't fun to put those guys in their place either because they don't seem to know to tolerate the fact that it isn't in the American culture to butt into other peoples buisness to disrupt whatever sense of privacy you and this chick can have.

That just some of the crap that latina girls bring into your life. Learn to deal with it if you want one of them for the long run.
 

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Mods - delete this bullshyt thread!!!
I really don't understand why this thread is so "BS"?

could you explain this for me?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nice thread

Capi I am starting to like you more and more since you stopped spamming the board.;) :D :D

Please stop with the flaming on a perfectly good thread:rolleyes: can't we all just get along:D
 
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