I sense may of you will find this article validating, as it reflects much of what we have been discussing here for years.
Young men today feel they must be six feet tall, make six figures, and have six inches downstairs to get a girlfriend—so many have given up trying.
www.thefp.com
The sad part is they don't have to be any of those things really, they just believe they do.
Reminds me of the experiment they did where a panel of glass was put in an aquarium between fish on one side and a shark on the other. The shark repeatedly kept trying to go eat the fish and ramming into the glass. Eventually it just gave up.
Then they took the glass panel out of the aquarium and waited to see what the shark would do. Surprisingly it just swam up to where the glass had been and stayed there without even trying to go past it because it has been conditioned to believe that it was now impossible and so it didn't want to feel the pain of running into it anymore.
Similar situation. They want to protect their ego from the pain of being "rejected" but the only barrier in their way are their own self-limitint beliefs.
Sure, they might not be able to get the women they want at first and may never truly be able to get a 9. Many men never are. But there is no reason whatsoever that a guy cannot get a 7.
I have seen so many fugly dudes who are fat, nasty and out of shape that have pretty wives and girlfriends that you cannot tell me it is not possible for any guy to at least get that. And no most of these guys are not rich or well off either. The women are with them because they actually like them and some appear to be head over heels for them.
Sometimes the overfocus on money, looks and gym leaves to an empty personality and that is one of your greatest assets along with confidence that you actually believe you are deserving of those women.
