Call it black magic or a curse but as soon as women hit 30. They erase that off their bio on any platform. To be honest when I was looking overseas. Even I didn’t look no higher than 27 and no lower than 24 and I was 40. I’ve seen so many women act like they’d never get with an older man only later on down the road get with an older man cause to them somehow he’s different, when we all know that with a little success in life, charming, good sense of humor. You can do wonders.
It’s not the same for women. Especially when they haven’t adapted to their age. You take a girl all through her 20s of not having to do much to attract men who will give them the world. They got the mindset of a celebrity that haven’t figured out that they are a has-been. No more VIP access, no skipping lines and the line ups and options aren’t really there any more. Soon they start blaming that men aren’t the same anymore and changed cause they aren’t getting approached by the top caliber like the old days. Its not that. On contrary to popular belief. Men still approach but women have to be rocking it. Don’t get me wrong cause there are a lot of beautiful 30 and 40 year old women out there but now they have to have a lot more going for them then their mature looks. They have to have something a lot of what they didn't need to have back in the day and that’s personality. Games and drama will just have men saying next. Not texting back. Whatever. Next. Just sitting there with the me, me, me attitude and thinking the guy has to do all the talking and keep everything going is still going to get results. Not no more. Effort is now a two way street. Not a lot of those girls are prepared for that kind of change.
sure girls fall for the “I’m 30 or 40 and lots of men still want me. Even younger men want me”. Honey. Not trying to disappoint you but they aren’t looking most times for a relationship. Most times it’s just for a few rolls in the hay and next. Sure there are some good ones out there but if they once were taking photos from a penthouse in Dubai and have clips of vacations all over the world. Dating after that is going to feel like dark souls mode.
that’s why I always say. A woman’s greatest value is her youth and beauty. Use it wisely because it’s not forever. There is a high chance she’ll run into the perfect man or many and dismiss them through that time. Call me crazy but it took me one time to notice that I finally ran into marriage material and I took that off the market at warp speed and was not wrong and it turned out amazing. There was no “the one that got away.”
This is spot on.
I mentioned before that there was a very attractive gym girl I used to date back in 2019. She was extremely flaky. We matched again on Bumble about three years later, and she had gained around 70 pounds after dealing with a car accident and depression. Her pictures were mostly angles, so it was clear she was still trying to present herself a certain way.
She told me stories about how, when she was at her peak physically, wealthy men would buy her random gifts, fly her out, and even take her on private jets. But after gaining weight, she realized she could no longer attract that same level of attention from the same type of men.
She was basically mourning the loss of her “pretty privilege” and talking about how shallow people can be.
At the time, I didn’t fully understand what she was trying to say, partly because she wasn’t the most articulate person. But now I get it. For some women, losing their looks can completely change how they are treated, not just by men, but by society in general. That shift can be jarring. Some become bitter, some adapt, and some have to rebuild their identity outside of beauty.
But the deeper point is this: even women who stay in shape and remain attractive eventually age. Skin changes. Eyes change. Bodies change. Time comes for everyone.
No one is hot forever.
