"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Dark Triad theory of dating: Narcissism, Machiavellianism, Psychopathy/Sociopathy

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Those are small sample size surveys not actual science. There's nothing empirical about what you posted.
 

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Those are small sample size surveys not actual science. There's nothing empirical about what you posted.
I've ran across some of your posts in this thread and noticed you offered nothing substantial to counter with. You've only dismissed everyone's arguments with "no it's not". I think those ppl arguing w/ you are taking you way more seriously than they should. What is even your point in this thread besides calling Meeks ugly or "nu uhing" ppl?
 

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Those are small sample size surveys not actual science. There's nothing empirical about what you posted.
So they took a "small sample" of people in different part of the world in different times and the outcome has been the same all the time.

Guess thats the biggest coincidence ever existed in this world.
 

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It's old news that CEO's tend to be taller than "average". But if your not "taller than average" focus on something else. People are going to notice a taller guy a little more.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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And sadly I have been beaten by many shorter tennis players who had great technique or mental focus or fitness or anticipation.....

There will be environments where your particular impediment matters a lot and environments where it doesn't matter so much. Guess what your job is go on just guess...
 

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This whole thread is for ppl who want to whine about who they are not and what they were born with. Why not just end it all and spare us all your silly tears? So your short fat and ugly. Who cares
But I thought it was all about game?
 

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So they took a "small sample" of people in different part of the world in different times and the outcome has been the same all the time.

Guess thats the biggest coincidence ever existed in this world.
The cope is off the charts. These guys wish they had a taste of the Meeks Pill. So much for game when you can nearly beat someone to death and have thousands of women donating to your prison account without you having to say a word.
 

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Being short is not that bad (at least for dating) if you have a good face.
I agree because I've seen it first hand. A buddy of mine is only 5'7 and he often bragged that he could get any woman he wanted because of his handsome face. In school all the girls were after him and he could even walk into a strip club and pull strippers because of his brad pitt face. His eventual down fall was his blue pill nature (he wifed a stripper).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Indeed..

Narcissism, in the absence of looks or money or accomplishments is just delusional cope.... it's nothing more than an extension of the "fake it till you make it" mentality......

A short guy cannot fake dominance without eventually getting checked by a taller more masculine guy.....

A socially awkward guy cannot fake "c0cky and funny" without coming off as cringe.....

An ugly cannot run "game" without looking foolish...
Ugly men have 4 options: Luck out, rope, cope, or go Joker.
 

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I've ran across some of your posts in this thread and noticed you offered nothing substantial to counter with. You've only dismissed everyone's arguments with "no it's not". I think those ppl arguing w/ you are taking you way more seriously than they should. What is even your point in this thread besides calling Meeks ugly or "nu uhing" ppl?
The post is not substantial in itself. It's a gimmicky youtube video for men mad at the world
 

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Billionaires are stereotypically short.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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