Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The cycle of no life

GruntCardone

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Hi guys!

I just got my first smartphone so I'm going to airbrush my photos, download Bumble and game some 9.75s!!!!

What was on my mind today that I wanted your input on was if this site actually hinders progress. I noticed certain posters just go through the same circles over and over for years or decades.

For instance, beating your ex, getting fired from your job, creating a cartoon character alter ego, and having a full blown argument with yourself for 37 days in the NC thread. Then doing the exact same thing (minus maybe the beatings) 2 years later presumably with a new girl who may or may not exist.

If this is a site designed to help men how do you explain it perpetuating cycles with guys who are clearly unstable?

Discuss.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mrgoodstuff

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Hi guys!

I just got my first smartphone so I'm going to airbrush my photos, download Bumble and game some 9.75s!!!!

What was on my mind today that I wanted your input on was if this site actually hinders progress. I noticed certain posters just go through the same circles over and over for years or decades.

For instance, beating your ex, getting fired from your job, creating a cartoon character alter ego, and having a full blown argument with yourself for 37 days in the NC thread. Then doing the exact same thing (minus maybe the beatings) 2 years later presumably with a new girl who may or may not exist.

If this is a site designed to help men how do you explain it perpetuating cycles with guys who are clearly unstable?

Discuss.
If they keep discussing their issues and never get to living and putting the advice into play, it is equivalent to COMPLAINING. And complaining is weak and gets you no where.

RichardTheFrog who got booted after the lambo, I bet he got to living, is probably banging babes.
 
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