"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The cycle of no life

GruntCardone

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Hi guys!

I just got my first smartphone so I'm going to airbrush my photos, download Bumble and game some 9.75s!!!!

What was on my mind today that I wanted your input on was if this site actually hinders progress. I noticed certain posters just go through the same circles over and over for years or decades.

For instance, beating your ex, getting fired from your job, creating a cartoon character alter ego, and having a full blown argument with yourself for 37 days in the NC thread. Then doing the exact same thing (minus maybe the beatings) 2 years later presumably with a new girl who may or may not exist.

If this is a site designed to help men how do you explain it perpetuating cycles with guys who are clearly unstable?

Discuss.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mrgoodstuff

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Hi guys!

I just got my first smartphone so I'm going to airbrush my photos, download Bumble and game some 9.75s!!!!

What was on my mind today that I wanted your input on was if this site actually hinders progress. I noticed certain posters just go through the same circles over and over for years or decades.

For instance, beating your ex, getting fired from your job, creating a cartoon character alter ego, and having a full blown argument with yourself for 37 days in the NC thread. Then doing the exact same thing (minus maybe the beatings) 2 years later presumably with a new girl who may or may not exist.

If this is a site designed to help men how do you explain it perpetuating cycles with guys who are clearly unstable?

Discuss.
If they keep discussing their issues and never get to living and putting the advice into play, it is equivalent to COMPLAINING. And complaining is weak and gets you no where.

RichardTheFrog who got booted after the lambo, I bet he got to living, is probably banging babes.
 
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