i was in a club last night. this hot Indian girl (hb8.5) was checking me out non stop. i'm not Indian or anything but she was pretty cute. i finally decided to say something to her since the starring was getting a little out of hand, so i walk up to her and say:
"are you going to keep starring at me or are you going to say something?" in a fun kind of way
she replies with
"i wasn’t starring at you" (when she so obviously was)
i look at her, smile, roll my eyes, and walk away. amazing how girls can come off as so obvious.
Then there was another girls last night, different club.
I sit next to her and say a few nice words. I’m a nice guy at this point. She quickly snuffs me with some *****y remarks. I don’t care. I play it cool and completely ignore her. I prop my feet up and just look really relaxed. Almost too relaxed. After about 5 min she’s all over me. She putting her legs over mine, putting her hands on my shoulders and asking question. And I continue to play it cool (she’s a 7) I say some necessary things to answer her questions and that’s it, I’m totally not interested in her. Then, in the middle of a her sentence I just say, "I have to go for a min" I go to the bar and start talking to the bar guy and to this blond next to him. She snuffs me off easy too, I purposely acted like a nice guy to open her up. opening as a ****y badboy does not really work for me, or rather I cant make it work.
5 min later the other chick approaches me and starts talking again. I’m annoyed and move on. Then 5 min later that blond chick from the bar walks up and starts talking (she was an 8.5) we fluff talked. I got her to the clubs top floor, I isolated, made out, and got an e-mail. Booya!
Moral is. come off too needy and they snuff you. Come off as typical jock guy in a club, they snuff you. Come off as a relaxed cool guy who’s not impressed by female attempts at attention and you’re golden.
"are you going to keep starring at me or are you going to say something?" in a fun kind of way
she replies with
"i wasn’t starring at you" (when she so obviously was)
i look at her, smile, roll my eyes, and walk away. amazing how girls can come off as so obvious.
Then there was another girls last night, different club.
I sit next to her and say a few nice words. I’m a nice guy at this point. She quickly snuffs me with some *****y remarks. I don’t care. I play it cool and completely ignore her. I prop my feet up and just look really relaxed. Almost too relaxed. After about 5 min she’s all over me. She putting her legs over mine, putting her hands on my shoulders and asking question. And I continue to play it cool (she’s a 7) I say some necessary things to answer her questions and that’s it, I’m totally not interested in her. Then, in the middle of a her sentence I just say, "I have to go for a min" I go to the bar and start talking to the bar guy and to this blond next to him. She snuffs me off easy too, I purposely acted like a nice guy to open her up. opening as a ****y badboy does not really work for me, or rather I cant make it work.
5 min later the other chick approaches me and starts talking again. I’m annoyed and move on. Then 5 min later that blond chick from the bar walks up and starts talking (she was an 8.5) we fluff talked. I got her to the clubs top floor, I isolated, made out, and got an e-mail. Booya!
Moral is. come off too needy and they snuff you. Come off as typical jock guy in a club, they snuff you. Come off as a relaxed cool guy who’s not impressed by female attempts at attention and you’re golden.