"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Cube; Best Friends' Test; etc.

jrodbendi

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I read about this stuff in The Game...where can I learn more about it? Is it in Mystery's book? I always seem to end up reverting to interview type questions when talking to girls, which gets me nowhere.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Personally, don't use routines...they'll only prevent attraction.

The best way would be find out about her, but have it be an active interest and of how u can relate to her on some level...as girls love talking about themselves...we as humans have to have atleast gone through similiar positive experiences as one another....so its not impossible to not relate to her. It may seem like an interview, because your just asking regular questions...but maybe some of the good questions you ask...you should talk about an experience u have urself and then she'll be more comfortable to talk with.
 

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I have field tested the "Cube" to the point it is almost blue.

In my experiences, the "Cube" is not meant to be an opener, or one of the first routines. I have done this in all stages of the interaction. I found the later I wait to use this, the better. Always ask them if they have heard before you use this routine. Be sure you congruently convey you read it in some magazine or heard it from somewhere.

Second, if someone has been "Cubed", flip it around in a way where she is Miss Smarty and she will ask you all the questions. Chances are she won't know or remember and you are able to continue or switch the subject. A couple other methods to overcome the "Cubed" is accuse her in a playful way by trying to brush up on Men's magazines or tell her I need to see how you score.

Third, the "Cube" is not meant to be a centerpiece to the conversation. Be as brief and articulate as possible and stack a more natural unrelated routine once finished.

Fourth, be selective on who and when you do the "Cube". I have seen many women with intrigue when I "Cubed" them and I have seen ones that weren't. The ones were not intrigued, I brought it up too early. Waiting longer in the interaction once you get interest is the best time to pull out this routine.

Even though thousands of us are using this out there, in my opinion, this is an effective crutch when done correctly.
 
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