"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Cube; Best Friends' Test; etc.

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I read about this stuff in The Game...where can I learn more about it? Is it in Mystery's book? I always seem to end up reverting to interview type questions when talking to girls, which gets me nowhere.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Personally, don't use routines...they'll only prevent attraction.

The best way would be find out about her, but have it be an active interest and of how u can relate to her on some level...as girls love talking about themselves...we as humans have to have atleast gone through similiar positive experiences as one another....so its not impossible to not relate to her. It may seem like an interview, because your just asking regular questions...but maybe some of the good questions you ask...you should talk about an experience u have urself and then she'll be more comfortable to talk with.
 

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I have field tested the "Cube" to the point it is almost blue.

In my experiences, the "Cube" is not meant to be an opener, or one of the first routines. I have done this in all stages of the interaction. I found the later I wait to use this, the better. Always ask them if they have heard before you use this routine. Be sure you congruently convey you read it in some magazine or heard it from somewhere.

Second, if someone has been "Cubed", flip it around in a way where she is Miss Smarty and she will ask you all the questions. Chances are she won't know or remember and you are able to continue or switch the subject. A couple other methods to overcome the "Cubed" is accuse her in a playful way by trying to brush up on Men's magazines or tell her I need to see how you score.

Third, the "Cube" is not meant to be a centerpiece to the conversation. Be as brief and articulate as possible and stack a more natural unrelated routine once finished.

Fourth, be selective on who and when you do the "Cube". I have seen many women with intrigue when I "Cubed" them and I have seen ones that weren't. The ones were not intrigued, I brought it up too early. Waiting longer in the interaction once you get interest is the best time to pull out this routine.

Even though thousands of us are using this out there, in my opinion, this is an effective crutch when done correctly.
 
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