"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Cube; Best Friends' Test; etc.

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I read about this stuff in The Game...where can I learn more about it? Is it in Mystery's book? I always seem to end up reverting to interview type questions when talking to girls, which gets me nowhere.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Personally, don't use routines...they'll only prevent attraction.

The best way would be find out about her, but have it be an active interest and of how u can relate to her on some level...as girls love talking about themselves...we as humans have to have atleast gone through similiar positive experiences as one another....so its not impossible to not relate to her. It may seem like an interview, because your just asking regular questions...but maybe some of the good questions you ask...you should talk about an experience u have urself and then she'll be more comfortable to talk with.
 
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I have field tested the "Cube" to the point it is almost blue.

In my experiences, the "Cube" is not meant to be an opener, or one of the first routines. I have done this in all stages of the interaction. I found the later I wait to use this, the better. Always ask them if they have heard before you use this routine. Be sure you congruently convey you read it in some magazine or heard it from somewhere.

Second, if someone has been "Cubed", flip it around in a way where she is Miss Smarty and she will ask you all the questions. Chances are she won't know or remember and you are able to continue or switch the subject. A couple other methods to overcome the "Cubed" is accuse her in a playful way by trying to brush up on Men's magazines or tell her I need to see how you score.

Third, the "Cube" is not meant to be a centerpiece to the conversation. Be as brief and articulate as possible and stack a more natural unrelated routine once finished.

Fourth, be selective on who and when you do the "Cube". I have seen many women with intrigue when I "Cubed" them and I have seen ones that weren't. The ones were not intrigued, I brought it up too early. Waiting longer in the interaction once you get interest is the best time to pull out this routine.

Even though thousands of us are using this out there, in my opinion, this is an effective crutch when done correctly.
 
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