I have decent wit and intellegence for my age, but i was wondering if anyone had any tricks up their sleeves for improving wit. I always have problems with ****blockers or *****es... when they pull a diss on me i'm always off guard. Any ideas for that or how to improve wit would be appreciated.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Crack of the Wit
- Thread starter Raven125
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
AlwaysExcel
Senior Don Juan
Pap's tips on the "Alpha on Alpha combat" thread are pretty good. I really like the one suggesting pointing out the other guy's motives. Like say to the girl or her friends, "Damn, this guy is practically humping your (her) leg! Don't you hate how grabby guys troll this club looking for one night stands?"
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
You are a DJ at 13?? Sorry kid, wit comes with age and experience and it is spontaneous and not planned. It comes from within!
as my pyschology teacher always used to say:
words mean nothing, they cannot harm you. it is not an action.
(hey it's pyschology course, what'd you expect?)
if i were you, i'd just go "oh really?" then go back to what i were doing.
the intention of the ****blockers are to just piss you off. if u get pissed off they'll be happy, if u dont they'll be pissed. LoL
words mean nothing, they cannot harm you. it is not an action.
(hey it's pyschology course, what'd you expect?)
if i were you, i'd just go "oh really?" then go back to what i were doing.
the intention of the ****blockers are to just piss you off. if u get pissed off they'll be happy, if u dont they'll be pissed. LoL
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.