"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey.. I'm sure all of you studs have been asked this before.. and I will get the response of "read the bible" or "do some further research" .. But i really don't have the time for that. I just want some straight up help if possible.

Ive been talking with this girl for a few months now.. and shes a chatterbox... she pretty much never shuts up. She asks me why I don't talk a lot.. that I'm too quiet.

Well, I'm not a great conversationalist when it comes to girls i have a ''thing for'' ... im at a loss for words when we're face to face, and when i usually talk, i only say like 5 words. I need some help, real bad .. otherwise i don't think this relationship will get any farther.

Thanks a lot men.. i appreciate it a great deal.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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read the bible tips under the heading 'conversation', and a few articles come up. Read a few of them to get a broad idea, it worked for me.

Goodluck!
 
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Shezz said it just right.....active listening...practice telling her what she just said....ask qustions about the things she talking about......there is more detail in the bible


When in doubt nod and say uh huh.....

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Yes, listen to the above two posters^^^^

That way you won't embarass yourself with anything that you really want to say. Just keep reacting, no girl likes it when your the first to act.
 
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Hey .. thanks for the help .. but, I was searching for the DJ Bible .. and I can't seem to find it.. where is it? Can someone paste me a link please. Sorry im such a hassle.. I'm new.

Thanks..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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