Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hey.. I'm sure all of you studs have been asked this before.. and I will get the response of "read the bible" or "do some further research" .. But i really don't have the time for that. I just want some straight up help if possible.

Ive been talking with this girl for a few months now.. and shes a chatterbox... she pretty much never shuts up. She asks me why I don't talk a lot.. that I'm too quiet.

Well, I'm not a great conversationalist when it comes to girls i have a ''thing for'' ... im at a loss for words when we're face to face, and when i usually talk, i only say like 5 words. I need some help, real bad .. otherwise i don't think this relationship will get any farther.

Thanks a lot men.. i appreciate it a great deal.

Peace
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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read the bible tips under the heading 'conversation', and a few articles come up. Read a few of them to get a broad idea, it worked for me.

Goodluck!
 
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Shezz said it just right.....active listening...practice telling her what she just said....ask qustions about the things she talking about......there is more detail in the bible


When in doubt nod and say uh huh.....

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Yes, listen to the above two posters^^^^

That way you won't embarass yourself with anything that you really want to say. Just keep reacting, no girl likes it when your the first to act.
 
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Hey .. thanks for the help .. but, I was searching for the DJ Bible .. and I can't seem to find it.. where is it? Can someone paste me a link please. Sorry im such a hassle.. I'm new.

Thanks..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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