"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Conversationalist

whatdude

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Hey.. I'm sure all of you studs have been asked this before.. and I will get the response of "read the bible" or "do some further research" .. But i really don't have the time for that. I just want some straight up help if possible.

Ive been talking with this girl for a few months now.. and shes a chatterbox... she pretty much never shuts up. She asks me why I don't talk a lot.. that I'm too quiet.

Well, I'm not a great conversationalist when it comes to girls i have a ''thing for'' ... im at a loss for words when we're face to face, and when i usually talk, i only say like 5 words. I need some help, real bad .. otherwise i don't think this relationship will get any farther.

Thanks a lot men.. i appreciate it a great deal.

Peace
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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cA^

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read the bible tips under the heading 'conversation', and a few articles come up. Read a few of them to get a broad idea, it worked for me.

Goodluck!
 

El MonoLoco

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Shezz said it just right.....active listening...practice telling her what she just said....ask qustions about the things she talking about......there is more detail in the bible


When in doubt nod and say uh huh.....

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ethnomethodologist

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Yes, listen to the above two posters^^^^

That way you won't embarass yourself with anything that you really want to say. Just keep reacting, no girl likes it when your the first to act.
 

whatdude

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Hey .. thanks for the help .. but, I was searching for the DJ Bible .. and I can't seem to find it.. where is it? Can someone paste me a link please. Sorry im such a hassle.. I'm new.

Thanks..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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