"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Confident Smile

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Sometimes my smiles come off as as bit creepy because of my mood. What do you guys think of before hand to get yourself in the confident smooth smile mindset?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Consider how awesome you are.....smile and look right into their left eye.

my instinct used to be to look away when a beauty was walking towards my line....now I look right at 'em. It's a great feeling when you make eye contact and smile at them. stokes the fire of confidence. I read somewhere, that your ability to look at them and smile is a sign of confidence to women. looking away is not.
 

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ok...im not reaaly cool with smiling at chicks but
how come when i try to smile at a chick it never works??...
like 2day..i was chilling in between classes in the library and i tryed to smile at a couple of chicks but they look away too fast....some dont look at me at all...
 

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fellas ima tell you the key to a great smile from within bcuz people love to be around me and ima funny guy so what you need to do is be happy your alive take the little moments and enjoy not having cancer or aids that you can move freely and not have to depend on a wheelchair for mobilty just you know little stuff like should brighten up your day if you just stop and think and dont worry about those who didnt smile back bcuz its those people who are ungratefull for these thing some call them little small thing but in reallity if you didnt have legs or an arm or couldnt see then are these things really that small lol this should be more than enough to bring your sprits up
 

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Willis said:
ok...im not reaaly cool with smiling at chicks but
how come when i try to smile at a chick it never works??...
like 2day..i was chilling in between classes in the library and i tryed to smile at a couple of chicks but they look away too fast....some dont look at me at all...
Happens to me all the time, but it doesnt matter. Some people are just confined to their own little bubble. Its worth it when you do find a girl who smiles back, or when you tell that you brightened someones day for at least a moment.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Espi said:
90 percent of the people I smile at do not smile back.

You should get used to that--but you should keep smiling. Once a girl's lack of smiling back means nothing to you, everything will be smooth sailing.

Remember: no matter how many girls say "no", you need only a relatively few to say "yes."
Funny isn't it, when you look at it. When you have sex with a woman, you only need one sperm to connect with an egg in order to have a baby, even if all the rest of the sperm got wasted. We should learn from our sperm.
 
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