"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Confident Smile

Crissco

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Sometimes my smiles come off as as bit creepy because of my mood. What do you guys think of before hand to get yourself in the confident smooth smile mindset?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Consider how awesome you are.....smile and look right into their left eye.

my instinct used to be to look away when a beauty was walking towards my line....now I look right at 'em. It's a great feeling when you make eye contact and smile at them. stokes the fire of confidence. I read somewhere, that your ability to look at them and smile is a sign of confidence to women. looking away is not.
 

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ok...im not reaaly cool with smiling at chicks but
how come when i try to smile at a chick it never works??...
like 2day..i was chilling in between classes in the library and i tryed to smile at a couple of chicks but they look away too fast....some dont look at me at all...
 

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fellas ima tell you the key to a great smile from within bcuz people love to be around me and ima funny guy so what you need to do is be happy your alive take the little moments and enjoy not having cancer or aids that you can move freely and not have to depend on a wheelchair for mobilty just you know little stuff like should brighten up your day if you just stop and think and dont worry about those who didnt smile back bcuz its those people who are ungratefull for these thing some call them little small thing but in reallity if you didnt have legs or an arm or couldnt see then are these things really that small lol this should be more than enough to bring your sprits up
 

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Willis said:
ok...im not reaaly cool with smiling at chicks but
how come when i try to smile at a chick it never works??...
like 2day..i was chilling in between classes in the library and i tryed to smile at a couple of chicks but they look away too fast....some dont look at me at all...
Happens to me all the time, but it doesnt matter. Some people are just confined to their own little bubble. Its worth it when you do find a girl who smiles back, or when you tell that you brightened someones day for at least a moment.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Espi said:
90 percent of the people I smile at do not smile back.

You should get used to that--but you should keep smiling. Once a girl's lack of smiling back means nothing to you, everything will be smooth sailing.

Remember: no matter how many girls say "no", you need only a relatively few to say "yes."
Funny isn't it, when you look at it. When you have sex with a woman, you only need one sperm to connect with an egg in order to have a baby, even if all the rest of the sperm got wasted. We should learn from our sperm.
 
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