"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The concept of showing masculine power

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Before you bring a woman into your life, pull up that interview

https://www.kqed.org/forum/201011011000/the-business-of-power And play the words between 14:10-14:40 to her. Then ask her: "What are your thoughts on what Professor Pfeffer says there? Not your FEELINGS, but your thoughts?" If she replies "I couldn't agree more", "It's true", or any variation thereof, she's a keeper

If she bristles and scoffs at what Pfeffer says, proceede no further with her. It's that simple
Ok, I am italian and I understood a little of that conversation.
What basically is the principle you're "testing" on a woman?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"What they look for, instead, are signs of male POWER"

 

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Testing? No. Vetting the woman, before you bring her into your life? Absolutely!!! If she's one of those folks who denies the reality that each of us is a product and a brand, and that we all need a value proposition* if we're to prosper... Well, she's not an investment who's likely to yield a strong ROI


*https://www.techtarget.com/searchci...osition is a,target market or target audience.
Hmm, why should a women allow this reality?
Because she will act like she knows about the game and she's searching for a man with value?
 

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Hmm, why should a women allow this reality?
Any woman who fails to recognize that each of us(herself included)is a brand and product has a weak internal locus of control. This isn't someone it's wise to keep company with
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is very common to hear in casual conversation in Italy, but it's a bit different.
Anyway, we are saying that we must recognize if a women knows "about the game" and if she knows "about her value in the game".

Is there any other way to ask this, indirectly, without asking?
For example, with a methaphor.. What comes to your mind?
 

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Anyway, we are saying that we must recognize if a women knows "about the game" and if she knows "about her value in the game"
Precisely. Same way one avoids going into a business partnership with those who aren't interested in upholding their end of the bargain
 
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