"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Before you bring a woman into your life, pull up that interview

https://www.kqed.org/forum/201011011000/the-business-of-power And play the words between 14:10-14:40 to her. Then ask her: "What are your thoughts on what Professor Pfeffer says there? Not your FEELINGS, but your thoughts?" If she replies "I couldn't agree more", "It's true", or any variation thereof, she's a keeper

If she bristles and scoffs at what Pfeffer says, proceede no further with her. It's that simple
Ok, I am italian and I understood a little of that conversation.
What basically is the principle you're "testing" on a woman?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"What they look for, instead, are signs of male POWER"

 

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Testing? No. Vetting the woman, before you bring her into your life? Absolutely!!! If she's one of those folks who denies the reality that each of us is a product and a brand, and that we all need a value proposition* if we're to prosper... Well, she's not an investment who's likely to yield a strong ROI


*https://www.techtarget.com/searchci...osition is a,target market or target audience.
Hmm, why should a women allow this reality?
Because she will act like she knows about the game and she's searching for a man with value?
 

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Hmm, why should a women allow this reality?
Any woman who fails to recognize that each of us(herself included)is a brand and product has a weak internal locus of control. This isn't someone it's wise to keep company with
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This is very common to hear in casual conversation in Italy, but it's a bit different.
Anyway, we are saying that we must recognize if a women knows "about the game" and if she knows "about her value in the game".

Is there any other way to ask this, indirectly, without asking?
For example, with a methaphor.. What comes to your mind?
 

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Anyway, we are saying that we must recognize if a women knows "about the game" and if she knows "about her value in the game"
Precisely. Same way one avoids going into a business partnership with those who aren't interested in upholding their end of the bargain
 
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