The concept of showing masculine power

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The concept of "power" discussed here

"What they look for, instead, are signs of male POWER"
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"By learning to adopt the actions and attitudes of the dominant male, it is possible to create these sort of emotional disturbances in women at will."
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What are we talking about? What is really power here?
 

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The article says a whole bunch of nothingness, a huge nothing burger.

Male power =female excitement. We know that. But as usual, no mention HOW average Joe is able to display or even feign such power.

So a woman can wear a short dress and some slutty make up and voila, temptation. A man must " display power".

In my culture displaying power is the norm. That's why now the new trend for women is to rahter date " jailbirds" over a hardworking career-oriented man. Because if I'm willing to shoot your brains out somehow I'm more exiting than when I can offer her peace and tranquility.

I am telling you OP stay the feck AWAY from this. It's a lose -lose strategy. Yeah you'll get laid here and there. But at what price?

If you wish to display power do so by being the best version of yourself and by dgaf about what people think about you.
 
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"By learning to adopt the actions and attitudes of the dominant male, it is possible to create these sort of emotional disturbances in women at will."
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What are we talking about? What is really power here?
What they mean is the same thing you read in other ways: "You're the Prize" or "You have to raise your Sexual Market Value to stand out among other males" or "You're the Lion / King". Women should feel lucky and honoured to get your attention.

Women like masculinity, but there are many types of masculinity to display, from 'action man' to 'ascetic stoic' to 'rock star', and although they will display their masculinity in different forms, the essence is mostly 'emotional self control' and 'capable of independent thought and action'. In short, 'maturity'.

As most males show mostly immaturity these days, showing maturity immediately marks you as a dominant male.
 

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Have the biggest set of shoulders in the room and you already have the masculine power without opening your mouth and saying a word or doing anything.

All of that other stuff doesn't matter.

That's why you train like a beast.
 
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That's why you train like a beast.
And look like an animal.

I'm big, but most of my fellow bouncers were huge. Still, everybody listened when I opened my mouth. It's not always in your size, but in the way you carry yourself that shows your authority.
 

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And look like an animal.

I'm big, but most of my fellow bouncers were huge. Still, everybody listened when I opened my mouth. It's not always in your size, but in the way you carry yourself that shows your authority.
Ofcourse you are right. But let's just say that for most men this could/ should be a fundamental practice.

Not everyone is as comfortable in his own skin as you ( that is a compliment). So those men will benefit from being noticed from across the room by looking as good as possible

. It will give a man plenty of unexpected opportunities.
 
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Not everyone is as comfortable in his own skin as you ( that is a compliment). So those men will benefit from being noticed from across the room by looking as good as possible
I'm saying everyone should do whatever they want to in order to feel comfortable in their skin, but I don't support using steroids and going to the gym. Working on your attitude works better.
Looking like Arnie the Barbarian but behaving like a little b!tch will not give you what you're looking for.
 

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I'm saying everyone should do whatever they want to in order to feel comfortable in their skin, but I don't support using steroids and going to the gym. Working on your attitude works better.
Looking like Arnie the Barbarian but behaving like a little b!tch will not give you what you're looking for.
I always assume that most men including lurkers are (logically) part of the infamous 63% who doesn't date. Those men are headcases and thus have to work on all facets of the game;

Spiritual
Financial
Emotional
And yes, physical ( which includes the wardrobe and the crib)
 

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By learning to adopt the actions and attitudes of the dominant male, it is possible to create these sort of emotional disturbances in women at will.
Put this nonsense in another context:

By learning to adopt the thought processes and attitudes of a world class mathematician, it is possible to solve complex equations at will.

By learning to adopt the finger movements and attitudes of a world class guitar player, you can shred up on stage at will.

By learning to adopt the leg movements and attitudes of a world class marathoner, you can run sub 3 hour marathons at will.
 

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Smoke the fattest cigars and blow the most smoke! :)
 

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Quote the article linked in The OP: "
Contrary to what you see every week on ‘Sex and the City’, women are the complete opposite of men in that, the more *anonymous* the sexual encounter, the LESS gratifying they find it to be. Unlike the fictional uber-slut Miranda, satisfying sex does not begin and end with the quest to find someone new to have an orgasm with. For the vast majority of women, the MORE connected they feel to their partner, the more overwhelming the total sexual experience is for them.

Just the reverse of typical male thinking, right? Men are intensely turned on by the thought of having sex with a woman for that very FIRST time, or by scoring a one-night stand with a perfect stranger, or perhaps fantasizing about being in a porno movie and having wanton sex with dozens of hot women he hardly knows. The common link between all these scenarios is that there is NO emotional bonding involved. Hell, there’s hardly even an exchange of names! For the man, the more anonymous the sex the more *exciting* the idea of the conquest.

How the two genders make use of (and even exploit) this knowledge of each other’s romantic weakness, however, is an entirely DIFFERENT story.

Women know exactly how to turn men on by manipulating this hardwired ‘quirk’ in their character that absolves them of the need to actually know anything about a woman who has triggered his desire to mate. How? Simply by pushing this uniquely male “anonymous sex” button
long and often… by acting sexy AND remaining emotionally aloof at the same time. The stripper, the table dancer, the *****. The molten hot stranger. Any persona will do — and all are quite useful when their design is seduction!"

Note the dateline on that article: 2003!!! That we keep pretending any of this so-called Red Pill Knowledge is anything original remains mind-boggling. Not to mention sad... In the not too distant past, we were having honest, jargon-free conversations about these subjects
 
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Note the dateline on that article: 2003!!! That we keep pretending any of this so-called Red Pill Knowledge is anything original remains mind-boggling. Not to mention sad... In the not too distant past, we were having honest, jargon-free conversations about these subjects
I still have these conversations with women, honest and free of jargon. And I think women appreciate candour. You just have to know what to be candid about and what you keep private.
 

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And I think women appreciate candour. You just have to know what to be candid about and what you keep private.
Brings us back around to a conversation we had elsewhere recently

It's prudent to select women who appreciate men who go out of their way to learn what it takes to succeed, with both them and life more generally. I'm not even kidding, when I recommend playing the words spoken between 14:10-14:40

https://www.kqed.org/forum/201011011000/the-business-of-power to any woman you're contemplating bringing into your bed and your life, then ask: "What are you're thoughts on this? Not your FEELINGS, but your thoughts?"

Gals who simply reply "I couldn't agree more", "It's true", or the like are worthy investments. Those who duck and dive, lapse into yapping about their feelings anyway, or give an answer similar to the disjointed rambling heard between 28:36-30:15 of the above interview, are ones to cease all contact with immediately
 

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I think if your playing the short game, sure, but this isn't a sustainable mindset for the long game and is inherently dysfunctional, this isn't the world of 30 years ago as much as some of you like to think; like this idea comes into full conflict with the idea of having a purpose and you can see the dysfunctional people who entertain this type of energy all the time never get very far.

Money talks, but wealth whispers
 

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Hi Jhonny,
I feel inspired by these responses...I will be Master in my own home,
I shall not come from under the bed!
 

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6:00-6:50

Optics change. The fundamentals remain constant and timeless
If everyone has these strategies they aren't timeless, infact they wouldn't even be competitive at that point but would be a point of origin for new strategies.
 
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