"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The company you keep marks you as one of them

Ridingthelightning

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I've been friends with a druggy skank for about a year. Never really worried about banging her cause I am an elitist and I can do better than banging some drugged out loser.
But I banged her. She is hot. 5'5 or so and HUGE double d's. And they are perfect. I never approached it, but given the chance any hetero guy would in a heartbeat. It was NSA. And after it was all over I said to myself, "Self, that sucked. If people f'ed like they looked, that should've been a lot better."
Tonight we go out and I know I'm getting it at the end of the night. She sees her ex. She starts a fight. And makes a complete fool of herself and of me and some other guy she ends up going home with. I didn't care because she had the entire bar staring at her while she was b!tching at him. She even punched him in the head.
What I'm trying to say is... If a person is crazy, then leave them be. They are not worth it, and they make you look just as bad as them in social situations. You can do better, and you should.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MatureDJ

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Ridingthelightning said:
...I am an elitist and I can do better than banging some drugged out loser. But I banged her. She is hot. 5'5 or so and HUGE double d's. And they are perfect.
And this is exactly why crazy women continue in the gene pool - because we men are so horny that even though we know these are trashy women, we want to hit it.
 

jophil28

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Ridingthelightning said:
I've been friends with a druggy skank for about a year. Never really worried about banging her cause I am an elitist and I can do better than banging some drugged out loser.
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If you really are an "elitist", then why did you bang her or even befriend her in the first place. Your behavior contradicts your self advertisement.
 

Ridingthelightning

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Good question jophil28. Recently I've been getting my life in order. Its not that it wasn't in order before, just quite a few loose threads. Such as... I hadn't finished school, had even fooled my parents into thinking I had. Wasn't really doing anything other than hanging out with whomever was there and working. I was pretty much working to drink every night.
This said girl was one that I would hang out with a lot. When conditions are right she is a lot of fun, and thats 99% of the time. What drug user isn't? Her actions recently have shown that she isn't worth the time at all and doesn't use drugs, but abuses them. I didn't see her popping xanax and chugging jager bombs, I just saw the jager bombs.
So I am getting my life together and shunning things of this nature altogether. Good plan, eh?
 

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The real lesson here isn't about avoiding druggies or looking bad in social situations. It's about avoiding the unhappy and unlucky. They will bring you down into their chaos.
Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky

You can die from someone else’s misery – emotional states are as infectious as disease. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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